What Stop You From Moving Forward?

in #life7 years ago

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1. Give Up Halfway

80% of the world's failures comes from giving up halfway.

People who give up halfway, will never experienced the joy of success after insisting on doing something. For them, the process is always boring and full of frustration and human nature is indolent.

Every year at the first few pages of the notebook are full of grandiose plans, but the pages after that are almost blank …
Bought a good book, but haven't even started to read it yet.
Determined to lose weight, but give up after 5 days…

Almost all of us have had the experience of "ambitious plans, dispirited and discouraged".

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2. Too afraid to Reject

Your heavy and fragile self-esteem.

Most of the time, the "pain" we feel in relationships is related to "rejected feeling".

Sometimes this refusal is obvious, such as the sudden death of a lover, or the betrayal of a friend and estrangement.

And sometimes this rejection can be very subtle, such as when you gave a smile to the others, but the other look away from your smile; or you finally have the courage to send a message to someone, but she does not reply for a long time.

A person who can lay down his self-esteem, is a person who focuses on goal-oriented results, and the person who puts his pride in the first place, will always focuses on the attitude of others.

So, the more useless a person is, the more obsessed with the bottom line of the small self-esteem.

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3. Fear

Many people have this feeling when working: fear of being blamed by manager, fear of being incompetent, fear of being known for their own shortcomings, fear of how others look at them, fear of making mistakes, and fear of not getting pay for their hard work.

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4. Refuse to learn

You are not lonely, you just don't want to learn.

Learning needs brain, self-development needs to constantly struggle with ourselves, it's a painful process!

Might as well lying at home playing games, watching movies, and then see your peers get pay higher than you, have a better life than you, and complain with your friends that you have bad luck.

Most people's emptiness, basically is because they are too free and have nothing to do.


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So great tips dear friend , keep going on
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