School is the "TICKET" to Life, Don't Always Complain Your Life is Hard and Tired
"Go to school is too hard and too tired, might as well go to work earlier!”
This sentence I often heard from students, including myself.
Do not like a teacher, don’t like the class, tired of studying everyday, hate the pace of life from dawn to dusk. When learning something that you are not interested, you will go to school and complain, it’s too hard and tired. But in fact, you did not experience the fun in gaining knowledge and does not understand why you need to go to school.
"Hey, nowadays the children are really tired!"
This sentence comes from the mouth of adults, often is the topic that has high attention. Watching their children carrying heavy schoolbags every day, wake up so early in the morning, worried about the food outside, so much homework after school, every day need to study till so late.
As a parent will inevitably distress their children, and then by some adverse public opinion influence, began the education discontent. In fact, the parents are also not clear why their children need to go to school.
As for school, more and more people are giving a variety of negative assessment, a variety of negative energy around us, as if it forms a lock, and locked away the rational thinking.
To be very extreme, every child who is not properly aware of school, and those who were affected by the negative emotions of bitterness and exhaustion, is very difficult to have great ambition. The thoughts of adults can directly affect the children, and the negative thoughts of children are more likely to be ingrained and even affect the next generation.
Is school hard? Yes.
Are you tired from school? Yes.
But even so, why do we have to go to school? Can’t we not go to school?
School, help us develop good behavior habits
At home, parents guide the child to “put the shoes on the shoe rack”, wash hands before dinner”, began to form a sense of discipline.
At school, the parents and teachers need to guide the child to have a good quality of punctuality by reaching school on time. On the way to school, experience the wind and rain, cold and hot weather, so that the children have no fear of hardship and have the spirit of the moving forward towards their goals. Recess 10 minutes, let the children learn how to use the time to get enough rest, and ensure will stay awake for rest of the class. Continuous study, helps the children learn how to consolidate knowledge, how to complete the work in terms of quality and quantity, and give themselves more rest and play time.
Compared to the examination results and ranking, the more important lesson is to understand what is the thing that determines the future value. It doesn't matter how well you did in exam, doesn’t matter whether you are the top student, this thing, is your diligent thinking, diligent brain, analogy, have goals, plan, organized, and willing to endure hardship, willing to maintain good behavior habits.
Unfortunately, there are so few people to think like that about the school. Too many people put their focus on the results and ranking.
W is my college junior, he major in Aviation services, he was graduated with a flying color and hired by the airlines. Maybe because of having trouble getting out of bed, on the third day of work, because of failure to get out of the bed, he got fired by the company.
There will be questions: "Everyone said that the test results is not the most important, but the interviewer will still look at the test results!”
Why don't you think about where the good results come from? What is the basis of good results? Even if the test result is not the most ideal, your good behavior habits can add value, which is a life benefit! Moreover, if a person from a young age, developed and maintained good behavior habits, his test results won’t be too bad.
School, help us develop a stronger willpower
Willpower allows us to adapt to more complex circumstances and always keep an upstream heart. School is an important formative stage of willpower. In school, there will be students who study hard; there will also be students who have fun and lazy. The correct guidance of adults is to allow children to resist the negative impact, form willpower and produce consciousness. These two are enough to shape a successful person but also enough to destroy a person.
I have been a coordinator in the dormitory for the last three years of my university, and I have to help the professor when I have no class. One day, a student who just finished drop out procedure, sitting in the hallway waiting for the bus. When waiting for the bus he said: "What kind of crap university is this? The lecturer won’t even pay attention to student who do not work hard to study, if in other university, this is a serious matter! ”
I was like “OMG”, a college student incredibly doesn’t even has a little willpower, don’t even realise how old he is, still want the lecturers to urge him to study? It can be said that such a person will not go anywhere in his life, his life will end in failure.
No matter what kind of school, there will be people who do not study hard; No matter what kind of environment, there will be people who are lazy. What kind of influence depends on people's will power and consciousness. From ancient to modern generation, there will always be people who will exchange the lifetime of sorrow for temporary comfort.
School, let us have a correct attitude
What caused so many people to learn to be so perfunctory under such superior learning conditions? This is a self-deception! Attitude towards work is the attitude towards learning. Attitude to study directly affect the future of attitude towards work.
Work is a kind of urge, let you automatically review learned knowledge. Work is a business, how to manage the business, complete the quality and quantity of work in a shorter period of time and leave more fun for yourself, this is efficiency.
However, how many people do homework only for homework?
When the end of the student era, move into society, some people will complete a wide range of tasks on time, every task is the opportunity to learn, helps the career path become wider. Some people are busy all day, working only for work, become more and more confused, only complained about the family, complained about the boss, complained about the company, complained about society. But they never thought that they have the wrong attitude towards learning. Once every day complain that school is useless, learning things useless. But they never thought how it will impact the future.
School, help us get closer to life, adapt to society
School is a microcosm of society, when you go to school every day, learn knowledge together with all kinds of students, accept all-round comprehensive training. You will form your communication circle, with the ability to adapt to the social environment, form team spirit, and understand the individual is belong to the social.
Every students have different backgrounds, different personalities and different habits of learning; Some teachers are kind, some are stern, some are conscientious, some lack of responsibility. Children in such an environment will understand that there is no perfect person, no perfect team. The adults will guide the children to discover and learn the advantages of each other, cultivate a good mind, and teach children to encounter great things in the right way of handling, so that the children can continue to progress, to adapt a variety of environments, and always maintain good habits.
School is the ticket to life, is the experience of every person growing up, is an indispensable part of life. The cognition of school is different, the attitude is different, the meaning of life is different. Some people are difficult to understand this, how much of the learning knowledge is actually used to live? Is it necessary to be so hard, so tired?
Of course it's necessary!
Because the study is always full of boredom and hard process, so that it can cultivate positive and the courage to overcome the difficulties. At the same time, learning is also a happy thing, which is reflected in the results of the study. When thoroughly learned a knowledge, mistakes done in the examination will never happen again. Continue to improve, hard work and efforts will be rewarded.
Study hard is a responsibility, learn how to experience the achievement of gaining new knowledge. Turns the good to a habit, this is the real value of school. This is the capital of wealth and success in life, its role is far better than getting good results and ranking.
What is hard? What is tired?
When you complain that you have a hard life, please look at the children in poor countries who are not fed, clothed, frozen, and living in fear of war; Think of the elders who were forced to work in the countryside during the Cultural Revolution.
No one's youth is on the red carpet. In order to success, don’t always complain about too hard and tired. If you want to be a successful person, you must learn to work hard. The best nutrition of youth is hard work! The future you, will be grateful for the hard work you put in now!
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