Life is Boring. Why I can't be happy?

in #life7 years ago

This is a problem that everyone will encountered.

They do not feel happy and not satisfy with their current life.

We have those who have relationship problem, work problem, and some hated their life.

All this problems can be summarized as, how to make my life better?

To get your answers, you have to figure out another question:

What does your life made of?

This question can be divided into three smaller questions:

  • How do you spend your time?
  • Where do you spend your money?
  • What do you do when you’re meeting with your friends?


Time

There are 24 hours a day, apart from 8 hours sleeping time, you have 16 hours left.

In this 16 hours, how do you spend you time?

If you make hour to hour calculation, you will find that in that 16 hours, the time you study, concentrate on work and do other things that have a positive impact on your life, basically less than eight hours.

We spend most of our time on chatting, dazing, napping, surfing the net, and other entertainment ......

But what we want the most? Maybe learn a foreign language, get healthier, new culture hobby, job promotion and so on, living in a life full of excitement and fulfilling.

Let's do a list like this, list out the things you want to do in a itinerary.

Daily schedule

  • Sleep 8 hours
  • Work 8 hours
  • Eat 3 hours
  • Inevitable time-consumed 2 hours
  • Three hours left

you still a lot of TV shows haven’t watched

you have a lot of gathering need to attend

you got new game waiting for you

... ...

so day after day, will your life become better?

Money

Where did you spend money?

Food? Entertainment? Clothes? And a variety of snacks?

Do you have the habit of saving?

Do you do investment?

Did you buy insurance?

Is your money spent on learning new things?

Do you buy any books or courses?

All the activities involve spending money, will it makes you rich?

So day after day, will your life become better?

Relationships

What did you do when meeting your friends?

Will there be any deep conversation?

Did you learned anything from the conversation?

Are you happy when meeting your friends?

Do gossiping makes you happier?

So day after day, will your life become better?

Every new year, we set our New Year's resolutions and have confident that we can achieve all of them.

There 365 days in a year, which is more than three hundred days living in the same life, if you don’t change now, will it suddenly be better in the future year?

If you don’t want to sacrifice too much, then accept your current life.

If you are not happy with this kind of life, don’t ask why you are not happy, why you don’t have friends, why you are worth nothing.

Ask yourself these three questions about life, then you will know the answer.

TL;DR  If you are not happy with your life, change now! If you hate changes, then ACCEPT it!

As always, if you like my post, upvote and follow me.

Thanks for reading!


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