How to Make Yourself Happy?

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Are you happy? No? Why not? What's bothering you? Do you want to be happy? Although this might not able cheer you up, but at least will help you lighten your stress.

 1. Do not compare with others. 

Person who looks successful and happy are tortured by his own inner self. So, just focus on yourself.

2. Socialize. 

If you are an introvert, force yourself to socialize more. It will helps you to get to know more people and opportunity. These relationship will helps you connects with more people.

3. Do health-related decisions. 

Exercise and a good diet will change your point of view of the world. Your brain will slowly filter out the negative thoughts in your mind.

4. Don’t do the same thing.

Don’t waste your time trying to find the "perfect hobby". Learn something new, whether it is art or fiber-tasting coffee. Find something you can put effort in, master it, then wait for results.

5. Keep in touch with your turning point. 

Ever since we grown up, we slowly lose those turning point. Put yourself in any of a group where you feel comfortable with, whether that group is your family, your neighbors, your culture, or your race.

6. Stop looking into the future. Stop looking back.

Try to pay more attention to your current self. Start building memories rather than live in the memories. Begin to create your future instead of looking forward to a better future. If you don’t do this, your life will become a shroud of fog across your whole life.

7. Create. 

When traveling, write or paints at any point. Write a song, even if you will never play it. When you’re leaving, start changing the legacy of your souvenir.

8. Let Go. 

Forgive those who hurt you. I'm sorry if I hurt you. But if you do not leave those hurt in the past, it will follow you like a wolf. Doesn’t matter what you do, it will always be your most dangerous shadow.

9. Care more about the others. 

Many times, our narcissism destroy us. It may sounds counter-intuitive, but take time to think about the needs of people in your life every day. Help them achieve some of their request will make you happier.

10. Stop running. 

   

In fact, there is no place is "far". How far you want to travel, but when you get there, you will always find yourself waiting for yourself. Draw out your sword. It's time to go back and fight the dragons in your heart.

You are stronger than them.

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100,000$ and a flight to spain would make me pretty happy right now

Well, different people have different perspective on happy, Btw, how would you spend that 100,000$?

Be yourself.

Of course, why you want to be other people while you can be yourself

that's the easiest way to be happy.

But sometimes, human likes to compare with each other

only if they dont love or accept themselves. But if you love yourself, then why wasting time to be somebody. Just a thought!

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