School prevents a lot of people from finding their identities. In America, young adults don't have time for searching within, or they are not even aware how to. The masses typically go through the motions for their studies and release stress on the weekend by binge drinking. It depends on the schooling system. I appreciate your feed back!

Self Identity is definitely a high priority, otherwise you get more divorces, more mid life crisis events, and unhappiness if not found. You must find yourself.