JEALOUSY

Jealousness! Does it really exist the way they're socially conceived? A torturing sensation of despair and anxiety , combine with a bit of frustration caused asumptionly by someone else that isn't me. Or is it simply a cronical case of extreme selfishness? I've the misfortune to feel this typical pathology among my relations; above all, between my couple and myself. From my personal point of view, the cause of jealousness comes from imaginary scenes and paranoid behaviour many which are baseless and are magnified by blindness of those who suffer them.

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However, it's worth asking in that exact moment when one feels this symtomatology: Why do we feel jealous? Because of fear of losing a beloved one? Jealousness attacks directly our dear ones. It attacks the egocentric and the individualistic me that can't tolerate to be fooled by another and still more important, it's worth asking: What good does it do to feel jealous? Many will say that one cannot control jealousness , that it is an uncontrolable feeling that attacks your emotions , vanishes your security and lower your self-esteem.

But after a lot of thinking and analysis, and as I've said, I have gone thru some of these circunstances at some point of my life and I have made my own opinion about jealousness not being controlable.
I would now dare to answer with a Walter Riso's style: " It's not what others do to you , it's how you take it; you decide what affects you or not

From my point of view, many would say that it is unavoidable to feel jealousness when the other person acts as to provoke it. Especifically I would think that whatever the other person does, that would have incidents directly upon me even though I don't want it to happen that way. Only because of social prejudice has molded it like that.

However, after taking off a good time to think about it, I've arrived at the first conclusion mentioned in this post, that jealousness is nothing more than selfishness, desire to control the loved ones. Then comes the part of the story where others will ask me: and what about provoked jealousness? Well that probably has it's origen and reason because og an action or carelessness done by the other person which has been more than evident risking of being wrong, I answer sarcastically, it's the other person, not you, it's his life, it's his way. Don't pretend to be understood , don't pretend he would feel compassion just because you feel it. Abandon your selfishness and share.