Are you a POSITIVE or a NEGATIVE? - #Padre

"I'm a realistic", you may say.

Fine, no problem. In which reality? Oh wait, this may sounds odd to you. Let me explain.

We may live in a multi-verse

People are often talking about paralel universes, infinite realities, etc. They never tought that they might live something similar right now.

I guess that you had so far a debate with someone. He had 1 point of view you had another. I'm not talking about the chances of which team will win the game.  I'm talking about things that cannot be measurable 100%.For example, your girlfriend says that is wrong to go with the boys to grab a beer. Of course, for you this would be an aberation.  Her inner universe understands reality in a different way than you do.

 Yes, you're starting to get it. 

The perspective difines the reality.

But how can I know which is the true reality?, you may think.

The true reality acording to what?, i'll ask you. To the others? Why if a large number of people belives something, it has to be true? A large number of people belived in Hitler's ideas and look what they achieved.

The true reality is the one that you choose to be.

"Whether  you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right." - Henry Ford

Are you a positive or a negative?

If you still think that the right way to be is a realistic, i'll agree with you. BUT if you think in negative terms in that "realistic" way to be, i'm sorry for you but you're a true negative. People get used to think that failure and negative events are most probably to happen than the positive ones. That is so wrong. Failure and negative events is the way of life or universe(doesn't matter) to show us what we have to improve at ourselves. And how can be this negative when I know how to become better?

Let's do an imaginary exercise. 

1. Guy 1(positive): I start a business.                                      

Guy 2(negative): I don't start a business. It's not a good time.                                                                    

2. Guy 1(positive): i failed with my business.   But i know what to improve.                      

 Guy 2(negative): I was right.

3. Guy 1(positive): i'll start again.                                         

  Guy 2(negative): You saw what happended. You should stop.             

4. Guy 1(postive): I failed again. But i know what to improve.             

  Guy 2(negative): You really don't understand.   

5.Guy 1(postive): I did it.                                                          

 Guy 2(negative): Nice, but i was right  2  times. 

6.Guy 1(positive): You were, but now I have a business and you don't.                                         

The positive mindset is not just for one time only. Is continuos.

I'll share with you a simple and efficient way to find the good in the bad.

You have to ask yourself regarding to one bad event which happend this single question: What can I learn from this?

Yes, only that. Maybe you won't belive me but belive this: to everything exists a cause and effect. Find the cause and you'll know what to improve. 

Finding how to become a better person I think that is a true win even when you fail.

So in which reality do you prefer to be?

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Thanks for reading,

#Padre