You know what, when I started to read your article, every sentence, I keep on meditating , because all you have shared is happening to me, you have this called REALITY that continuously most of the people compare themselves to others, and you are correct, for us to recognize by others is to recognize first our own behaviour , of who we are, of what we have and what are the passions we have ,to grow our self-esteem and make possible our own dreams to achieve in the perfect time.