Tell Your Son This Part 3

A rare woman not deeply affected by what you're upset about will own her mistake.

But if she's hurt, she's incapable of not feeling like the victim, even if she can see the hand she had in her own pain.

She'll twist her masochistic self-hatred into self-pity

Always the victim.

This is how she'll remain the victim even if she owns her actions

Your reaction to her actions, although justified, will be weaponized against you if unglamorous

It will then become about how your anger/words made her feel, not her actions

Her emotions are always centre stage.

A woman's pain is like a man's anger, it is tyrannical and must be serviced, for it is intolerant to anything but its own assuagement.