How to Stop Wandering Aimlessly Without a Direction Focus Or Purpose

Having a wandering mind is like living your life aimlessly. You do not have a purpose, direction or goal in mind. It is like someone who just walks aimlessly through life without a care or worry in the world. For most people having this kind of life can lead to serious depression and even suicide.


Having this type of life is not bad as long as you know what to do to get out of it. There are so many ways to live life purposelessly. If you just simply decide that you do not want to do anything, that will suffice. But if you want something out of life, you will need to find it. The first step is to identify the problem that is causing your life's wandering.

When you have determined the problem, try and find a solution to it. Maybe you want to find a more fulfilling career or maybe you want to have a more meaningful relationship. Whatever it may be, you need to find a purpose or direction in your life. This can be done by thinking rationally and coming up with some kind of answers for your life's questions. Thinking rationally means coming up with answers that are based on factual information, but also on your personal beliefs.

One way of coming up with answers for your life questions is to start writing them down. However, this is not enough as you should have your mind focus and attention on what you are writing. For most of us, dwelling on our problems with others does not work. As such, your life wandering aimlessly would not be put to an end. Instead, you would live your life aimlessly as long as you think things in your life.

If you want to achieve a better direction in your life, you need to find a new goal. Your old directionless life is worthless. You may be wandering aimlessly as a result of being confused between your current life and your future life. If you want to stop your life wandering, you should be thinking about yourself more. For most of us, dwelling on ourselves makes us sad and brings downs in our self-esteem.

To achieve a better direction in your life, you should start living for your future. As long as you think about your future life, you will have a clear direction in your life. You will no longer have to wonder: "How am I going to make it to X tomorrow?" instead, you will be able to know right now: "I will be reaching my goals tomorrow so I can be happy and pursue my dreams."

A lot of people are confused between their current life and their future life. They don't know which one is real. You must change this attitude toward your life. You are only a vessel that the future will mold into a meaningful direction. When you give your life direction, you will be able to achieve the purpose and the happiness in your life.


To have a purpose and happiness in your life, you need to start creating your own goals. This is not as hard as you may think. You only need to look at the things around you: what you see around you, in the news, and in the newspapers will give you a great start to achieve your goal. Write down the things that you don't like about your life. After you finish writing down all your negative aspects of your life, you will be ready to make your goal. Just keep in mind that you must do all the preparation first before you can go on setting your goals.