Don't Believe 100 Percent To The Men

in #life6 years ago

Who doesn't want to have a loyal lover and never lies. All women must crave it. True love is something everyone is looking for. In order to find true love, many women find it easy to give their hearts to someone who is not right.

But the name is also human, there are small or big mistakes that have been made. There are small and big lies ever spoken. There is pain that can be forgotten, some that make your heart really hurt until it's hard to forgive. You must be careful in falling in love. Don't let you be controlled by feelings.

In fact, even if you know he is good and you love him, don't give him 100 percent of your trust. Why?

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Because it feels sick

When you give 100 percent trust in him, and one day he betrays that trust you will get hurt. The wound that appears can be very large and difficult to forget for life. The danger, will make your relationship even worse and one day can be brought up. Believe it is okay, instead there must be between couples who love each other. But just give some, not everything.

He has a secret hidden

Men always have secrets hidden. You will know something later, some don't. Avoiding disappointments that might occur, you should give a little confidence so that when the secret is revealed you will not feel really disappointed.

The man is easily tempted

It's no secret that men are creatures that are very easily tempted. Tempted to lie, tempted to glance at the more beautiful, and all that is natural.

You have the opportunity to choose

When giving half the trust to him, then you still have the ability to choose. For example, if there is doubt in you, you can at least think twice and not regret having given everything to him.

Wait for the right time

Wait for the right time to give your trust to him, which is when you marry him later. Whole trust is needed when married in the household, but you should not give it all when you are still in the exploration phase and identify yourself.

You must be careful in falling in love. Don't let you be controlled by feelings. There are a number of things you can consider so you avoid heartbreak.

Build a foundation

A strong foundation is the most important thing in building a happy relationship. Before building a house you have to build the foundation first, as well as love. Each pair must go through the stages of the approach before heading for a more serious relationship. Start with a light conversation, until you finally find a reason why you should trust him. If you go through this stage well, you are ready to open your heart to it.

You will get hurt.

Some women are attracted to men from outward appearance. When you meet a man who doesn't really love you, you shouldn't force a relationship because eventually you won't be happy. If you meet a good man and you like him, you have to find out if he has all the qualities you want.

Escape

If you have just broken up, don't hurry to love the man you just met. Don't be too easy to trust him. It could be just your escape. Be careful about meeting men who just want to take advantage of your fragile emotional condition.

Men are more passionate

It's no secret that men are more passionate than women. Because of this fact, you can't trust a man so fast. It's normal for men to fall in love with your appearance first and then love your heart. If you want to build lasting relationships, physical attractiveness is not enough. You have to wait to give your heart.

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Be patient, in the end you will give everything to loved ones with all their heart. Including love, loyalty, trust, and that is when you are united in a holy marriage.

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@tjoet Yeah some facts are true but I think not all the men are of this type! It's 2018, the facts can be seen too with women! I don't disrespect women nor that I believe in gender discrimination.. But I believe that we have come far away from this stereotype manners! Women are as powerful, complex, passionate and intelligent as man now-a-days!

Yes you are right dear ... it was not for all mens... now adays women most be carefully with men ...

Ah, such a shame to see this opinion, though I don't exactly disagree either. Then again, no matter how I look at the post, about half of the problems are with women... I suppose you had a rough time at some point with men, but then again... let's leave gender aside... most of the things you're mentioning aren't exactly men + woman relationship but more human + human relationship IMHO.

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