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I want to change some ladies mindset today. You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants. I'm going to be real and down to earth with this article.

The way some ladies complain men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!

1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING:

A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe! Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talkless of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micro mini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress.
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2. LEARN HOW TO SIT:

Some ladies don't know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw a lot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether infront of a guy or not. Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!

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3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT:

Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can't you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful.

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4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES:

Some people just throw around the word "dear" as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, "thanks dear," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie", "bye love", etc., you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on.

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5. YOU PRAISE MEN TOO MUCH:

This shouldn't be a problem at all but experience has taught me that men are attracted and eventually turned on by women who praise them silly! You can compliment men if you want to but be discreet and casual about it. Don't over do anything. Telling a guy, "whao! what a nice moustache you've got!" or that "muscle on your arm can make any lady go crazy for you" is indirectly telling him you like his body and wouldn't mind if he sleeps with you.
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6. YOU SEDUCE MEN:

Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don't need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on. I really get worried when I see these pictures. You can't have my comments when you post such.
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7. YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA:

When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttock to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?

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8. YOU ALWAYS MEET YOUR PARTNER IN DARK AND LONELY PLACES.

Lobatan! Sex has finished its mission. Sex loves dark and lonely places. Wait, why are you always avoiding the public? You want to talk? Can't you still be around people and stay out of ear shot? What are you talking about that we must not hear? Send a text message or write a letter. You don't need to hide in darkness to express your heart.

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9. YOU SLEEP AT YOUR FIANCE'S HOUSE:

Why are you in a hurry to sleep under the same roof with a man? Why are you in a hurry? What is your problem? Some ladies can't wait for a man to propose. They pack their bags and move to his house immediately. For what? And when that one gets tired of the sex, he sends them packing and we are here listening to all their tales of woe! Some don't even expect their man to ask for sex. Aaah? Show me a monkey who doesn't jump at every sight if banana.

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10. YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX:

Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not really their fault that they sleep around.

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You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with a seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, men don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.
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Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtuous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex....,Check what is wrong and fix it. God bless you.



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There's also a simple, chemical reason. Men have 13-16x the testosterone of women, and therefore, 13-16x the sex-drive. Women who take anabolic or other steroids and close this gap suddenly become literal nymphomaniacs, to the point where is is greatly distressing for them.

"Testosterone therapy often results in an increased sex drive and a general increase in self confidence. For women, introduction to exogenous testosterone can also significantly impact psycho-sexual behavior."

Female bodybuilders probably understand men more from a first person perspective than any other woman could.

God forbid we should be sexual creatures.

Very informative @tinashe keep on rolling bro!

wow this is so helpful and hope ladies really take note of this information, coz really not all men are dogs but the behaviour of women trigger then to act in that manner

well all mens don't have same thinking ...through my inner soul i respect every women

Yes! I have been saying the same thing for so long! The way women dress today kills me, and it's only getting worse! I have a 14 year old daughter and it's getting hard to find clothes that we approve of. The way society sexualizes everything makes it so hard. Unless she's in a t shirt we have to make her wear an "undershirt". All blouses all low cut and shorts way too short!
Thank you for this post! 💕

Well as you said it yourself not all men are the same and while agree with you about that ladies should educate themselves so do men, I mean even If you don't do suck things or expect any of this and try your best to be respected, sometimes they don't care anyway. Because you are a "girl you most be used to this, let me send you a d*ck pick".

And young ladies get more than 23 pics on their DM in social media. Or men saying to a woman that she is ugly because she doesn't do such and doesnt go by the norm of dressing clothes that "show her beauty", Oh!" you won't sell what you don't show"I heard some one said to me once. So this goes both ways, and it all starts in their families, their mothers and father, what do you expect from a little girl of 5 years old to grow to when her mother dresses her with high heels and mini skirt because she does too.

Over all awesome post. PS: sometimes people just want attention and while I don't agree with the bad attention, sometimes is the way it is. Like some posts getting more votes because there is a cute pic on it. Or guys ignoring other guys and going to girls streams and comment naughty things. Sure I agree with you not everybody is the same.

This is educative to both sex. No wonder some churches encourage decent dressing. However young men fall prey to the ten reasons given above. As for ladies they might attract men deliberately or sometimes unaware of consequences they will fall in.

what a great mind blowing post for ladies to learn and know

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