3 TIPS to get OUT the Friendzone
How to get out of the friend zone? So, you've fallen deep into a friendship with your true love. It's not too late to turn it around and get out of the dreaded friend zone. In fact, I'm going to give you three tips on how to make the girl you like see you as more than a friend.
STOP BEING AVAILABLE
Guys in the friend zone tend to be available all the time. They’re the guys you depend on. The best friend that's always there. So your ass, as the guy in the friend zone, needs to fall back. Stop being so available when she needs you. Don’t be on call for her, she's not your girlfriend. She's your friend, leave her alone and take time for yourself. Find your own hobbies, don't be so connected with hers. This is about not overextending yourself and saying no sometimes. At the end of the day, the guy she likes is probably not helping her move. He's the one ignoring her and that's what she likes. So you need to be the guy that says, “you know what? I can't help you this time.” You'll feel better about yourself when you do!
MAKE A DRASTIC CHANGE
Next up, you have to make a drastic change. Remember, this is what you want. If you want her to see you different you have to change. This change can be physical. You can start working out more. It can be style related or you can get a new hobby. I'm not telling you to change. But if you want this friend zone action out of the picture they have to see you in a new light. If you think this sounds like too much work and I'm pretty sure it is. Remember, at the end of the day, this may not even be worth it.
MOVE ON
The last way to get out of the friend zone is my favorite because it has to do with you moving on. Date someone new and cute. Guarantee if your friend has feelings for you, you’ll see the jealousy. Girls can't hide it. They’ll talk about the new girl you're dating. Ask you questions about her etc. If you're not ready to date someone new. Since you're so hung up on the girl that friend zoned you. Then here's the weak way to do this. Find her best friend or girl in her circle that she knows. Start telling her about liking this girl. If your friend is like “oh my god! I'm so excited for you. Let me set it up!” Abort mission. You're not going to ever get out this friendship.
Getting out the friend zone is rough. Ultimately it's up to the girl whether she see's you as more than a friend. Do you want to wait for that? It's best to cultivate the friendship for what it is. A friendship. I want to give one final disclaimer. A last ditch effort If none of this works. Disappear for three to five years and don’t be in her life. It worked for Ryan Reynolds in "Just Friends."
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