What next?

So what to do in retirement? Sit around; continue to work; invest more time into life itself? There are plenty of decisions to be made in the next few months. I hit my 20th year in July, and I still don't know what I want to do in retirement. My wife is a Postal Worker, and I have so many years in the HR field that I just may become a postal worker with my wife. My 2 year old is growing rapidly, and my previous marriage and relationships are starting to become very stressful. Battling ex for custody of our 2 children and then my 16 year old, who I haven't seen since she was 1, is very stressed at home with her mom's decisions to not support the sports she wants to play. I have like 10 pins in the air, and its starting to spill over into my relationship that I have with my wife. We have a had a pretty rough ride, and she is my everything. Our bodies can only take on so much stress until it begins to bend in a such a way that it causes allot of spillage. Not always bad, but its not healthy for me, my wife or my two year old. Any suggestions from you steemians?