"Sexy is not a size, It's a Feeling"

After having a baby your looks are the last thing you care about. You haven't had a full nights sleep in ages, you can't remember when was the last time you had a decent shower or a drop of shampoo touched your hair. You look in the mirror and you realize a bikini may not be in your near future if ever, depends whether you were one of the lucky ones not to have any stretch marks. And then your hubby stands in front of you looking as handsome as ever and looking fresh while you sit with spit-up on your shoulder, milk leaking through your pajamas and your hair in knots and you try to remember when was the last time you had a chance to shave those legs.

It's ok to give yourself a break

Don't feel guilty when you are taking time away from the kids. When you have a chance take that nice long bubble bath, wash your hair and make those legs smooth and shiny again. And when the kids are asleep, forget about the housework once in while and catch up on some sleep... happy mom happy family

Buy some new clothes
Don't feel bad when your size 10 doesn't fit anymore, toss those pregnancy clothes and buy a few clothes to compliment your new attributes. Make your larger breasts work for you with a nice top or dress while you can hide and draw attention away from your mommy belly. Buy those shoes to match the outfit and something that sparkles for the finishing touches. You are allowed to spoil yourself from time to time since you can't walk into a store without only buying stuff for the kids.

Don't forget to make-up
I found that quickly applying some make-up in the mornings makes me feel better about my reflection, you don't look as tired and it boosts your confidence for the day. And you feel you can you greet your husband at the end of the day with a smile. Amazing that just a bit of eyeliner and mascara can do for a woman while maintaining most of your natural beauty.

Go on a night out
Whether it is with some friends or a date night to finally have some quality time with your husband. Enjoy it, try not to worry too much about the kids, be sure to leave them with someone you trust.

You are not just a mom, You are a Woman!!

**And to the guys reading this, notice the little things, be sure to compliment the mother of your child(ren) and help her to take that break whenever you can so she can enjoy that bubble bath, your wife will thank you later ;)

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