It’s over 😔
We didn’t want things to end between us. So we made up and had a nice night together. Up until I forgot to text him and tell him I got home safely. He automatically assumed someone had sent me a Snapchat message and we started fighting again. I just can’t take it anymore. I’m tired of fighting over things that aren’t even happening. Today was just fight after fight after fight. Just seemed to make everything clear. I didn’t want to be with someone that I felt like I had to hide every notification. Even if it was just my aunt. He would assume that I’m fucking some other guy. I’m sorry things didn’t work out like we had both hoped. We were going to find a place together. Adopt a bunch of dogs. Start a business. Do big things together. But maybe that plan never really included me. 😔
Here she is taking to social media again in an attempt to bash me.
Big surprise. * Eye Roll *
First off, I'm walking away, not her.
I decided not to be with someone who snapchats god knows how many men behind my back, speaking from experience here, and tries to hide it from me. On top of that, says one thing and does the complete opposite. Makes plans and does, again, the complete opposite. Starts arguments over nothing just to have make-up sex.. She's far from innocent in all this and it's sad that she's decided to be petty enough to post on a platform I showed her to give her a chance to earn something and feel valued for her posts. Guess I'm just such an asshole.. huh?
Second off, I was mad because I wanted to make sure she got home safely.. but never got an answer. Check snapchat, shows she's been on it since being home. Snapchat > your man, right? Ladies? Fucking pathetic that I have to defend myself at all.
Thirdly, she's been on dates with other men in the time we've known each other and been sleeping together and seeing each other. Whatever you call it. She said FWB, so I went with it.
Lastly, If anyone wants to talk shit about things they know nothing about and just assume she's telling the truth....
Don't forget, I have screenshots of all of our conversations.. Well, majority of them anyhow.
Technology is a beautiful thing. :)
Don't have any confidence issues either, btw.
Just trust issues.
Would you trust someone who's lied to you multiple times?
Been caught in lies?
Continues to lie?
I don't think so.
Fuck that.
Trust is earned and when you've broken it before you ever even earned it.. that's sad.
She also told me, early on before dating, she usually fucks guys on the first date.. so no wonder they don't stay.. I did, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Now I'm leaving cuz she's a LIAR and it's as simple as that.
Only a dumbass trusts someone known to lie to them.
I’m sorry I assumed it was also confidence issues. I don’t intentionally fuck guys on the first date. It just happens. You were the one that decided to just whip your dick out on the drive home. Seems to me that you’re the one that really wanted to fuck on the first date. After I told you I wanted things to be different with you. That I wanted to wait and you said you respected that. But seems to me I was wrong.
I did not come on here to bash you. I came on here because this is the only platform you didn’t block me on yet and I’m just trying to make sense of everything.
First of all, yes I do snapchat other guys. But itz all innocent. You keep telling me that we’re not together. We’re both single. And I. And do whatever I want. So yes I do snap other guys. But not about being in a relationship with them. I don’t start arguments just for make-up sex. We have sex regardless. You always turn things into an argument.
Second off, Snapchat does not show when you’re online. I’m sorry I forgot to tell you I was home. I immediately went to the bathroom and almost fell asleep when I got a snap from my sister.
Thirdly, I have only been on a date with 1 guy. I told you all about it. And nothing happened because I couldn’t stop thinking about you the whole time.
hi ... i am sorry for my intervention but i have to tell you There is a big difference between Jealous and lack of Confidence ...if you feel he doesn't trust you .. just go away and now better than go away in the future ... i think that
He has very big trust issues and confidence issues. He never believes anything I say. But I always try to fight for him and do whatever it takes to be with him. He just doesn’t seem to appreciate it. Or care even. He never once fought to be with me. Every fight started because of “something I did” because he apparently can do no wrong. I walk away because he upsets me and it just because my fault. Like I’m walking away from our relationship.
god bless you and hope to find a better one
With my luck in guys? I’m not so sure.
how old are you ?
I will be 23 next month
you still young and you have a great future with a guy will love you ... live your life and don't be a afraid from the whole guys ...just wait and you will believe me