Being or loving the idea of being.

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Or maybe this will not be a long one.
It may be some interesting article for many of us who are finding it a problem to be. Am not trying to give some expert or some guru advice here, there is just a fact which we always fail to accept.
This stems from alot of things, but it's the same reason why things like this happen.
Why many people want to own business but they are actually afraid of owning a business

Some people wish they could address crowds of people but even if they were given a chance, they wouldn't do it.

There are many examples of such things in our lives.
We day dream as we imagine everything being perfect, we love the idea of being successful.
Yes we love the idea of being successful but deep down we are afraid of being successful
The biggest number number of people have this element, the few people that minimize it or don't entirely have it are somewhere we would love to be one day.
So there is that fear that causes us to fall in love with the idea of doing more than doing itself.

Fear of Not Coping With Success. As Hugh MacLeod points out, success is more complex than failure. On some level, it's more comfortable to stay in a familiar situation, even if it doesn't feel great on the surface. But achieving success (however you define it) means you are entering uncharted territory

Yes,that pretty sums it up.

I believe success is more complex than failure

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One other big reason many of us don't become a success in somethings is not that we can be,
It's just that we think it's too much for us, deep down we believe we can only manage a success at a minimal level.
It's so subconscious that you can't notice it right away

Fantasizing about having a particular woman in your life and even when you get the opportunity to have that same woman, you wouldn't.
This can apply to all sectors of our lives, economical, social, and financial.

The fear of becoming someone else
We tend to love our poor selves so much that we are afraid of stepping it out and change somethinga about ourselves.
No one should ever tell to be yourself again it's a trap, people change, people are natured, environment changes people, most successful people are made not born.

procrastinating on activities that you know may lead to your success
Oh my, we all have had this.
That feeling of knowing that postponding is bad, you are panicking, but again you are doing nothing about it. The fear to attend a life changing meeting.
Because deep down you know, alot of things might change.
The comfort of being in a familiar place you have always been.

We should not stop at just loving the idea of being who we want to be, we should be it

Thanks.
As always
@tesaganewton