✍️ Words make the world spin

I strongly believe, now more than ever, that in a relationship of any kind communication is the one that creates a solid foundation for the feelings that emerge along the way. Words are the ones that make the world spin.
Words can change people forever, can cause people to love or to hate each other, to have faith or to get suspicious, to hurt or to heal. Yes, words have an incredible force and sometimes we are not aware of the impact they have.
What you say remains said and what you're saying could make wound, which might never get healed. There is a time when "forgive me" told from the whole soul can't change much in a crying soul.
On the other hand, even what you're not saying could take you away as well people that means something for you. If two people are silent, each waiting for the other one to say something first, these people risk to lose each other from cowardice, pride or from too much expectation.
Words tie and untie friendships, bring people together and then separates them. They take you on the heights of happiness and then they throw you in sadness. Choose carefully your words. Don't cast them to chance but use them to bring joy, not sadness. Also, don't delay to say that you are sorry or that you miss somebody. Someone has to say it and it doesn't matter who does it first.
As I said, in a relationship, the communication is the foundation on which you build. In it's absence, everything you build will collapse sooner or later.
Choose wisely when to talk and when to stay silent.
It matters a lot! 👊