Signing off: A trial separation or two

in #life6 years ago

Tonight, my wife and I are going to go out to dinner, perhaps even live on the edge and have dessert but I am sceptical as to how it will go because, it will be our first attempt at separation.

We just dropped our daughter to stay with her grandparents for an overnight visit. The only times we have ever both been away from her for the night was in the first days of her life, when she was in the intensive care unit at the hospital with a few minor complications.

Let's see how it goes but I am hoping well so that this can become a little bit more of a regular thing so my wife and I can perhaps go out a little further than a sushi bar, and maybe even start dancing again. With her studies, my working schedules and our daughter between, we don't really spend much time together.

It will actually be two separations of sorts tonight as I will try not to be online at Steemit or in chat and instead get some junk food (after the sushi) and watch a movie with my wife. I can't remember the last time I really had an evening away from here so it will most likely do me some good to get some space. At least, it will give my VP a chance to recover some. A little distance is healthy for a relationship they say.

The photo is from a taxi ride to a Salsa bar in Barcelona and our first trip away together. Even though it isn't the greatest quality image, it is one of my favourites of my wife as, she seems happy. I wonder where that woman went... :P

Anyway, I wish you all a great Saturday and if all goes well I will see you tomorrow. If not, I will see you in a few hours.

Taraz
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Have a nice date night @tarazkp and enjoy. Its always nice for a couple to spend some time just for themselves. Oh, and your post made me remember how much i miss Salsa :)

I miss it too.

Hey!! you two.. Say it!! I won't miss Salsa anymore!! }:)

And if that was not enough to convince you that I'm talking very seriously here...

Think again!! :)

I can't dance to that... :D

Of course you can. I am the one who couldn't figure out how you wouldn't. };)

You should arrange your times, for example the family and the wife in particular should be very interested with your daughter . And to roam with them every weekend
Do not let work distract you from living in your life

Good luck, I’m sure baby will be fine.
Although I was terrible, my first time away from my daughter was only to g to the hospital to have my son. Lol.

aww hope you have a fabulous date night with your lovely wife!

It's great that you finally found time for a romantic evening with your wife. Despite the fact that we really love our children, we should not forget about our other halves. It makes marriage stronger!

I don't know anything about your life because I've only recently started following you. All I know is that I really enjoy your posts so I wish you the best.

I hope both your separations went well and I hope you and your wife had fun last night. You're right, every relationship needs away time to work and you need to go dancing, or go have fun, especially with your family.

By the way, lovely photo :) Your wife is really beautiful and seems really happy.

You do not want me to tell you about the future, so I won't! Be very happy with today and tonight! Tomorrow will be ok without you dwelling there now.

Have some faith in your grandparents and your daughter Taraz, and enjoy the hard earned time spent with your wife. Have a lof of fun and hopefully you can set aside the (understandable) worrying part while doing so.

Hallo @tarazkp Very romantic ...
After reading your article, you love your wife, this is a very in want all women,
Hopefully you guys keep romantic relationships until old .thanks for sharing nice post

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