FACTORS WHICH BEDEVIL RELATIONSHIPS

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There are many factors that cause alot of problems in a relationship. These factors may be actions, inactions or even overreaction. Many relationship have a history of some of these following distractions or factors which not only put them under great stains, but also threaten to break the relationship, these factors are:

1. Negative or nonchallant attitude- The nonchalant or negative attitude of a spouse often make him or her unhelpful and uncooperative to the other. As attitude is everything in life,the wrong attitude will always affect the relationship itself.

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2. Intolerance- This is the unwillingness to accept ideas or ways of behaving that are difference from their own.It is unhealthy and can cause marital problems.

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3. Impatience and Selfishness - These are twins sisters and are vices by nature,some people are not only easily irritated or get annoyed by others because of little things,but only care about themselves,they are self-centered.This can lead to an unhealthy relationship

4. Feeling of mismatch - This is a situation where one partner consider himself/ herself better academically,socially,financially than the other and they regard the relationship as a relationship between unexpected bedfellows

5. Neglet and lack of care for each other- This does not help matter at all, Neglect and lack of care makes a relationship terrible.

5. Poor and lack of communication - This is very unhealthy for a relationship,no relationship can actually grow when the parties don't communicate, lack of communication generally promote or encourage rumors,blackmails,misgiving and character assassination.

6. Fault finding or unforgiving spirit -This is common between the spouses has grown cold

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7. Wrong expectation- This is similar to wrong values.wrong expectation have to do with when a partner except certain from the other which the latter might not be able to provide presently, such expectation may includes big car,money,clothes,all of which may stem from a faulty relationship

8. Keeping of secret- This also is dangerous to the relationship,and can lead to break up.

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Since all these factors are now known, its advisable to do everything to avoid these factors. Relationship, marriage are not something easy but with cooperation and determination,it will surely end well.

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