ENOUGH OF ENDURING,I SAID ENOUGH!

switmag (54)in #life • 6 years ago

i was in a relationhsip with this guy, i loved him so much, so deep that i could do anything for him, i mean i really loved this guy, but he was not reciprocating the love, he was not treating me the way i deserve, i was the only one doing the calling, texting and even the gifting.

i cried almost everyday it was as if i was dating an onion, but despite all this, i was enduring all the pain and bitterness, deep down me i knew something was wrong, i knew he was not treating me better i knew i deserved better than this but because i loved him, i was enduring, he treated me like an outcast, it even got to the point he started calling me names, i knew something was wrong, but still i was enduring, he was always shy to introduce me to his friends, i knew something was wrong but i was enduring, the continue for a very long time, i was not happy in my relationhsip but i was not ready to give up simply because i loved him, i kept enduring, but one day i said to my self enough of enduring,enough is enough and that was how i was liberated, how i was free from pain, from sorrow and now i am with someone better, i mean better than him.

This also has been the case in many relationships, where they know they are not being treated right but still try to endure, i said enough is enough, some even go to the extent of enduring beating from their boyfriends, i said enough is enough, we deserve better, we deserved to be loved, please its time to put a stop to your pain

How can you be in a relationship and your happiness is at stake, and you will continue to endure it, i said enough is enough, how can you be with someone that has no respect for your family, enough of crying. Relationship are meant to be enjoyed not endured, its hard i know, but you just have to let go

Deep down your heart, you know its not working, you have tried all you could but this guy or girl is just treating you like a nobody, i said enough is enough, why be with someone that does not want to be with you? why are you sitting down there shedding tears for someone that dont care if you are alive or dead? why are you starving yourself for someone who is thinking of another person?, i said enough is enough, you deserve the best.

its very painful to see people crumbling in a relationship but still try to endure it, why cant you just be bold. sometimes when you are brave enough to say Goodbye, a better hello will open up for you,you! yes you there, why are you sad? its it because you have being calling her for three days and she is not picking simply because she is angry that you forget to send her money my friend! stop it and say to yourself enough is enough! someone that loves you will truly love you for who you are not for your money or your body, has your guy refused to reply your chats simply because you refused to have sex with him, say to yourself this has to stop!

Relationship is a very beautiful thing especially when you are with the right person, anyone that makes you cry is not worthy of being with you, who told you you cannot find somone better than the person you are with now, who told you, you cannot see someone more handsome and beautiful than the person crushing your heart now.

One of the biggest mistake people make is thinking they will not be able to love someone the way they love their present partner, but that is a big lie, i also had that thought too, that i wont be able to love another person the way i love my ex, but i was wrong, i now love someone even more better than him, try it and you will be shocked. Life is too short to allow someone to make you sad, unhappy. Smile while you still have teeth, drop that crying handkercheif and pick up a smiling one.

Set your self free today, liberate yourself, somoneone is coming far more better than the person you are with, be smart, be wise, relationship should be a mutual thing not one sided thing, its better for you to be single than to be feeling single while dating, my dear, leave that person alone its a lie you wont die, breakup only makes you stronger, though its hurt,you can do it, there are thousands of people outside waiting for you to be single (lol) leave that person that does not really care about yoy enough of enduring,i said enough!