Nice to find anothet South African here! Im from Durban :) I studied Psychology too, just a quick degree through Unisa (nothing fancy). I never went into using my degree career-wise, but iy comes in quite handy relationship wise...and yes, it helps to get you what you want in a way, manipulatipm is such a harsh word...but getting things done the way you want is just that, manipulation. Have upvoted and followed! Much love @sweetpea