Hi Steemit Friends,

Love creates space to be comfortable and secure to share anything. There's mutual trust and the feeling of love is associated with happiness. On the other hand hate is like a vicious parasite that feeds off its host making them intolerable and gloomy, hate is associated with anger and sadness.

This article i want you to takes a look at various ways on how to love more and hate less:

Positiveness

Positive thoughts helps you look at the good things happening in your life, when is the last time you just appreciated the fact that the sun came up or what wonderful friends you have? Such positive attitude will trigger positive thoughts that will help build you become a very loving person. It will be very hard for you to hate on people or things when your thoughts are positive about life itself.

Communication

Open communication has been greatly adapted in workplaces, allowing employees to contribute more effectively with executives. Issues sometimes are bottled up for so long that they turn to hate, for example: imagine a friend of yours has this habit that you think is annoying, instead of bringing up the issue for addressing you bottle it down. With time you'll come to realize you'll hate this habit. Put this on a large scale or with more than one habit and you have a real hateful problem.

Be compassionate

Whenever we hate there's always a genesis to these, in the case we hate people, its mostly because they did something to us. Sometimes people will make mistakes that will affect us so badly that we hate them. With compassion, we can at times find it in ourselves to understand the situation and not let our emotions be quick to judge and condemn.

Learn to understand people.

Learn that people are not perfect, mistakes will always happen even by you. People are also different and you don't have to always judge and condemn to hate for being different, if you can learn to tolerate and not hate, you'l soon realize that hate can easily change to love if you take in the full picture.

Become forgiving

Forgiveness is a quality that if your blessed with, you live life without getting stressed now and then. The main reason people hate others is due to resentment. Once wronged, people cannot get past their own anger and end up carrying a lot of resentment, anger and hate. If we can learn to forgive and let go, we can love more.

Build trust

Building trust sort of cuts across all of this other points in this article, wen you can trust the people your involved with: you can understand people better, you can easily show compassion, you'll easily communicate and you can easily forgive. You will love easily in the end.

Becoming a more loving person and a less hateful one is a long and tiring process and requires immense character but it is worth the sweat. You'll become a more fun, happier, positive and stronger person that most will admire and want to be around.

Thank you for commenting, voting and sharing guys

The picture is from a recent shoot i did for a local fitness outfit wear. Had a fun time participating during the session.

Much Love, Suzana