5 Ways to destroy your marriage unconsciously

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When I got married, I was stunned as if by a magic wand had a feeling of responsibility towards her husband, whom I loved and that I had to take care of is now. This feeling is literally overwhelmed me. Unexpectedly for me my actions and decisions that I took have become greatly affect the life of my favorite person.

Women, we need a very balanced attitude to marriage and to care for our husbands. Do not let the simple everyday things destroy what brings the greatest happiness in life.

So, I offer you a few things that are invisible to you to destroy the marriage and get your husband to turn away from you ( as I would like to say that although this article and refers to women, men also will be useful to read it):

1. Going beyond the family budget

One is offering experienced woman once said to me: "A smart housewife will never spend more than it receives her husband."

Wives, your main task is to show her husband how much you love him and respect is the fact that you're balancing on the tightrope of the family budget, anywhere without falling off. In other words, you have very wisely manage finances.

The constant whining about the lack of money to meet your desires is not a modest or accumulation of astronomical debts on consumer loans is not the way to thank his faithful husband who is constantly in a strong tension in order to provide for his family.

Yes, it will not give you the opportunity to buy a luxury handbag, from which you have a few months can not take my eyes, but in return you will get something more, namely, love and pride of her husband about the fact that you appreciate it and thank him for his everyday and hard work.

2. Constant dissatisfaction

You can not stand his hair a mess in the house, neighbors, colleagues, stupid, old washing machine and all that is between them. Once your husband crosses the threshold of the door, you greet him with an avalanche of their negative thoughts and anger that has accumulated over a day.

You can imagine yourself what carry this burden on yourself? Permanent negative corrodes family idyll. Men like to solve problems, your problems, but constant complaints did not help them to this task.

There is one point that I think is very important in family life. This husband wants you to be happy, and if not, the first thing he is unhappy. Nothing wrong with that you had a bad day today, not at all so happens, however, can not be a day to do the norm.

3. Interests husband secondary

When your children, parents, best friends, hobbies and career for you higher than you own husband, so give him to know clearly that it is not for you is paramount. Now imagine that you "speak" to him about it every day, and for many years. How do you think what will be his self-esteem?

Your husband should be in the first place.
And though it can sometimes seem ridiculous and unworthy of consideration, you will be pleasantly surprised when you realize that this is one of the main ways to achieve happiness in marriage. Divorce in our time has already become something very commonplace because the couple did not want to love and care for each other and put the interests of his wife above the personal.

However, even if you decide to sacrifice their own interests for the sake of your spouse, you can slip up.

4. Ignoring sex life

Men need your affection and passion that they want. If you consistently avoid performing their conjugal duty, then it is bad for them.

Sexual relations should not be her husband's instrument of control. On the contrary, it is, a means of achieving spiritual intimacy.

Is not it great to be highly desirable for those who love the romantic mood and her husband, who wants to share something very beautiful and important to you and only you. Even if you're not in the mood you should (if you can of course) transcend themselves and surrender to the passions.

5. Speak with her husband

Women love to talk hints (I think it's in our genes). The problem is that men simply do not understand them (this is in their genes).

 Do not waste time unnecessarily releasing subtle hints that are still not understood and talk to him a language he understands. To be honest with them about their feelings and do not restrain yourself in the emotions until they are welling out. If he asks you about what happened the most stupid in this situation to say "no" and then expect that it will start to read your thoughts and guess the emotions. Honestly and openly tell him how you feel.