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There are those who need your care
And there are those who stand by you
And there you are
You often classify them in this order:
Your ...
Then around you ....
then you...
But this arrangement is cumbersome and you will be overwhelmed by the energy and energy you need.
In order not to be so ...
It must be:
You are .... & who cares for them .... & who stands beside you
One of the biggest mistakes people make against themselves
Is to defer their own attention .. when they have other responsibilities
Your time is very necessary to be divided between you and others in care
I mean if you are a mother or have children
Take care of yourself as well as your interest in your children
Do not bother them ... it is also your responsibility
To be able to do our duties to others whatever they are
We must not forget ourselves ... because our own needs are too
The shortage ... will diminish depending on the efficiency of what we offer to others
And therefore
It is in the interest of those around us ... to take care of ourselves ... and not to marginalize or nullify them.
The concept of self-sacrifice
His people .... and he needs a very very special nature
Otherwise .... which will happen later
It is very bad
When she begins to wish to take care of them ... that you are sacrificed for them
And you canceled yourself .... for you to put them at their service
That I have touched them not to appreciate at a certain stage
This is absolutely not permissible
Do not try to play the victim ...
So as not to be destroyed in a moment ...
In simple words of your tongue ...
Years of interest ... You are the one who decided how to live it.
I do not want you to have this dialogue
I want you to take care of yourself and do not neglect it .... to get the balance needed to stay standing
Because your survival is fine ... it will make you a strong pillar ... and therefore useful as it should be.
Take care of yourself well
Do not make yourself another list ....
And remember
The menu can be alphanumeric .... you & others
Instead of being his head ...
You
Then others
Or ....
Others
then you
God gave you the power that you need ....
And help you balance between yourself and those around you