I don't like some members of my boyfriend's family. Do you think this will have negative effect on my relationship with my boyfriend?
I understand your predicament. I have this in my life and can perfectly relate to it.
The thing is to not get upset. One has to accept the fact that they are part of the family and it can never be taken away.
Find out why they are making you uncomfortable. Is it their mannerisms? their talk or are they just trying to make you uncomfortable with unpleasant words or speaking against you to your boyfriend.
The most important thing is to talk with your boyfriend about this issue and tell him that you are not in good terms with some family members. Make him understand that it is they who are not welcome to you. Also tell those siblings that it is your private life and they cannot interfere beyond a limit. if they would like to rule over their brother, it is time to back off and mind their own business.
As for negative impact, there will be none if we speak the truth, pleasantly of course.
I hope I am making sense. I simply do not understand why some people think it is their birthright to control how others live. It is outright abuse and one should not tolerate it.
life is not a bed of roses. we can never have happiness all time through but we can decide if we want to keep the worries inside us or throw it out of the window.
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