RobbieM: Should you care about your appearance when interacting with women?

in #life6 years ago (edited)

My friends, when they approach women, are always worried if they are handsome enough. My answer is – let women care about their appearance, they are better at it. Appearance doesn't matter – have you seen Shrek and Fiona? Beauty and the Beast? The Hunchback of Notre Dame and his chick? It's a good chat, and, most importantly, how you make a woman feel when she's with you.

Women want a strong man, not a pu$$y. A man that will not care about his looks.

In short, your duty is to have clean balls and neat shoes, but let the woman care about her appearance.

It's women who are the beautiful sex, we fall in love with them at first glance if they are beautiful. It's us who gives them a chance and we approach them to verify what is hidden underneath that pretty face, if there is anything at all... Women, in turn, like handsome men, but the only thing a handsome guy gets in the beginning is 5 minutes extra, until the next guy starts giving air to him, when he's not doing well. The woman can always forgive him for small blunders, being enchanted by his looks, but, in a long run, if that handsome guy can't make the woman float above the ground, won't give her emotion, then, sooner or later, she will get bored of him. There are so many guys like that; when you think you have no chance and she will surely go to that good-looking lad, then as soon as he opens his mouth, women can not be as interested any more. I know many handsome men and at first glance you would say they have no problems with women, but the truth is, most of them don't know how to talk to women, just freeze when it comes to getting to know them, and are not themselves.

‘Good women love men more wisely. They don't love them for their appearance. Even though they like it. Women love you because of your character. Your strength. Your wisdom. Or because you can take care of your child. Because you are a good man, you have your honour and dignity. Women love men differently then men love women. It is not because of shapey calves, and not because of the fact that you make her friends jealous when you wear your suit. Of course, there are women like that, but they are just a bad example for others.’

Although my friend really fancied a handsome guy, she slept with a different one because she was tired of waiting for him to make a move, while the other guy had no problems to approach her and apparently was much less attractive, but did he care when he realised she liked him too, I don't think so. They live happily ever after. You can be that guy, too.

Remember, women also judge men as 'he's out of my league'. Sometimes you have a better chance of approaching a certain kind of women, for example being as shaggy as a pig or dressed imperfectly. Women also like the potential and have complexes, don't want to be cheated on, they can be more jealous with a handsome partner. They want their partner only to themselves.


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We care far less than most guys can even imagine.

I like the point!

I really enjoyed reading your post! It is very interesting! Girls are unpredictable though!
But about most of them , I think you got it right!

In short, your duty is to have clean balls and neat shoes, but let the woman care about her appearance.

great post. And I feel like I will use this quote quite a bit in the future.

glad u like it ;)

It is true that a good physicist attracts us a lot but just enough to spend a little time with that guy to realize if it is worth more his physical or his way of being.

sorry! My spelling is not perfect, I only speak in Spanish :-)

Thats good point you have made here!

In short, your duty is to have clean balls and neat shoes, but let the woman care about her appearance.

great post. And I feel like I will use this quote quite a bit in the future.

Lol I love it, all we need to have is clean balls and neat shoes. Check and check, where the honeys at 😂

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