Dealing With The Negative Comments Someone Makes About You

The most common complaint that someone will have with you when you try to date someone is the negative comments someone makes is on them, not about you. You might think that this would be a hard thing to handle, but it doesn't have to be. In this article I am going to show you how to avoid the negativity from your dates.


I'm sure that if you had told me what the first negative comment would have been when I was younger that I would have laughed in your face. It would be something like, "Oh, you don't care about me, do you?" This is something that can really take away from the excitement of dating and lead to some really ugly relationships. It is important that you do everything in your power to keep this type of thinking out of your mind. The reason this is important is because it takes away from the excitement that you could be experiencing.

The first thing you can do is not focus on the negative comments. If the person you are trying to date is making comments about you and not about you, that is one good sign that they are someone that you would enjoy dating. As the relationship goes on you will start to notice that the things they say about you are mostly positive and this will help make you feel more comfortable about yourself and give you some sense of peace that your date has an opinion about you that they are not only interested in you but also in the things that you are like.

So, when you start to start dating someone you need to be aware of the negative comments they have made about you. Most of these comments are coming from their friends, family or coworkers. The truth is that the more the negative comments are coming from outside sources, the more they are going to be about them. This is why it is so important to avoid dealing with these comments.

If you are someone who is looking to date someone and has started to hear the negative comments about you, this is not the time to start taking things further away from you. You want to keep your focus on the person that you are trying to date and let the negativity stop there. Once you have established a good feeling with someone, they are not going to be able to pull any negativity from you once you are in a relationship with them. So the longer they hear you talking about the negative comments you can continue to focus on your date.

Dating online can be one of the most fun ways to spend your time. The more positive things that come about your relationship, the more likely you are to enjoy it. But as they say, dating should not be a game. It is supposed to be a fun and exciting time that can bring you into another person's life and help you build a strong connection with that person that you are interested in.

So be sure that you learn to be aware of the things that others say about you when dating. It is not always about the bad things but also about the positive comments that you have been given. They are not only saying something about you, they are saying something about that other person as well. So if you were told that they are no good at cooking or are not really into you, then this can serve as an excellent way to tell someone that you are not that person and will help to move on.


And remember that you don't have to just ignore the comments you have heard. You can take a moment to reflect on them later to see if you have any questions about them. or if you feel that you don't agree with the negativity that has been said about you. Remember to keep your focus on your date and don't allow yourself to get sidetracked.