Finding ourselves can be quite the challenge, but it almost inevitably seems to involve some variation of "falling into our personal black hole" and then coming out on the other side... it seems to happen less for those who are "skating by, marginally comfortable."

Good for you, for finding your path... maybe one of the things to remember is that our sense of SELF actually comes from the SELF, not from an external source. We can find external inspirations but only we can define our authentic truth.

Child porn? That's SO wrong...