To be or not to be married

When we are young, and we have a serious relationship, we begin to look for stability, and others tell us that it is time to settle down, and they insert this social chip into our mind: "Should I or should I not commit?" This is one of the questions that got into our mind and we torment ourselves until we decide. And it happens that when we think about balance and personal balance we only think about what we will lose, because marriage is considered a settlement action in which the person agrees to live with another person. Ask yourself the following question: what makes us think or decide whether to live our whole lives with that person? because it is normal for society to call us to have children, to get married; It is very difficult to decide whether to throw the rope around our neck, because "being free is very cool" and our married friends tell us that we can't lose our freedom, and yet we are always looking for someone to live with, to accompany us and avoid the lonelyness. Not all of us are destinated to get marriage or even living together, living with someone or another, having children and even buying a house, in the world they always sell us the idea that we can not have children or get marriage if we don't have another things, to be happy we must have a house, a car, all my own, all mine, mine, mine and mine. And what about us? What about self-love? of the love for the being, for the only one with myself, that which only happens inside us, that nobody else can encourage us to do, that is something that is born to us, inside us. Why can not I be alone? What's wrong with me if I like and I decide to be alone?, society pleases us in happiness in the material, and we forget ourselves, to be happy with the eternal that is our own being.