The home

Here we were born, we were nourished, raised, educated, this space is connected with our first memories, the first emotions. Regardless of its ambience, the parental home marked our first vision of the world. It is both the protector nest and the flight to the world.

How to define parental home?

It is the house where we grew up surrounded by the tenderness necessary to develop and live happy moments here. It symbolizes childhood and its climate as well as exchanges, sometimes conflicting, but always necessary with parents and other family members. It also symbolizes solidarity with the outside world and a link, an opening on it.

What relationship do we have with the parental home?

If we return as little as possible ...

The relationship between the child and the child's home is comparable to the one he / she maintains with his / her parents. For some people who had a poor relationship with their parents, the parental home meant boredom and loneliness; if not unhappiness and isolation. Or even if the relationships with the parents were amiable, these people feel the house as a prison, lacking soul and fantasy, isolated from the world. That is why return home is considered an obligation, a chore that can not be bypassed.

If we get back as often as possible ...

With the passage of time and space clearance, we become aware of the role of the parents and the connection with them. If, once you become an adult, we feel the need to visit our parents almost every weekend, it is a sign that we miss the first house, but also that our parents have accepted our departure, that we consider ourselves an adult person and the relationship has evolved mutually. The connection is harmonious and durable, an argument for its consolidation over time.

If we get back from nostalgia

If we regretfully return to the parental home, we do it to regain our childhood, the hundreds of memories, the secrets of our time with our brothers and sisters. It's "a children's home," where I've once discovered the pleasure of the game and buried mysteries. A very intimate part of us has stayed here and sent to the regret of becoming an adult. Any change to the former room or playground is a treachery. Through the house we want to preserve an intact picture of childhood, a world in which adults and today's parents are excluded, a world in which we preserve our purity.

If we return especially when we go wrong ...

It means that we find something soothing, comforting in the family, which gives us the balance. There is security of the primordial place and of unity, safety with the family. Such a house is the matrix. Here we go back to old childhood habits or cheats, and usually parents, especially the mother is watching that nothing has changed in our former room, taking care to prepare our favorite dishes. When we have problems and we are unhappy, the parental home and parents are the mouth of oxygen that allow us to take it from the end and instills the belief that regardless of disruptions in our personal lives, we have somewhere somewhere safe and beings who will always love us. The parental house symbolizes solidarity with the outside world.

Does the parental house send to the image of the mother or father?

Sends it to your mother. Even though she works so much today, sometimes even more than her father, through her listening, receiving interest in the improvement of her nest, she will most actively participate in the climate of the house. The father generally deals with what the outside world can see. He is less sensitive to the concept of nest, symbolized by the room than the mother, and more concerned with the appearance of social success. So he will look more attached to places like the salon or the kitchen.

Is the parental home unique?

YES. Even in the case of repeated movements there is necessarily a space in which the affective side is stronger. What matters is the memory of being particularly happy there, of being in intense moments with loved ones. It is not necessarily the most beautiful house, but the most richer in emotions and feelings. There are beautiful houses that lack intimacy, personality, who have no soul and can not take the size of a parent's home. We all have known in childhood places where the humble objects give true affection, cause a state where a pleasant disorder reigns. Regardless of the use, grandeur or modesty of the place, what matters is that here to feel at home.