RE: The Crap I Put Up With (as a Woman in Crypto) Because You Say You're "Not a feminist"
This post was crap to me the second I saw you sneak the lesbian propaganda word "microaggresion" in the first paragraph. This is a completely made up word SJW lesbians use to denote themselves as "victims" of "evil white male patriarchy". The word microaggresion itself, due to the context it's always used in, is a sexist, misandrist word.
You're sitting here complaining about men, claiming they're stereotyping you, while using misandrist connotation against all men at the same time. This is why nobody takes feminists seriously, everything about them revolves around double standards and hypocritical behavior.
All of these new age, made up SJW words like "microaggresion" are defined around men always being the perpetrator of some made up crime and women always being the victim.
As for the whole feminism thing, men and women are not equal. Nor are they even similar at all. It's like claiming a cactus and a frying pan are equal. There's no valid comparison to make. What you're pushing is called cultural Marxism, a pseudoscience.
You're going to claim blah blah, I mean just equal in capability. This isn't even true. Humans are somewhat biological robots with limited free will. Most are pre-designed with certain traits and predestined to gravitate towards certain interests and behaviors.
This means on a bell curve you're always going to find big red flags for why they are not equal or even similar. Outliers do not matter in the grand scheme of things, only the bell curve.
I don't think you're capable of handling the real truth. The real truth is, on a bell curve, the path of least resistance for a woman to pass on her genes is to be a bimbo with good looks and otherwise bland, non-confrontational personality that will not conflict with the "alpha males".
There is no male conspiracy to keep women down. Natural selection itself is creating the bimbos, which men then stereotype against. This is an inescapable outcome because men will always outcompete women as a group.
Amongst a million other factors, biologically, men are stronger and more risk prone, while women are more risk averse. In other words, they're more proactive. It doesn't matter if that risk causes 99% of men to die in some manner, they're going to push more boundaries than the woman does, and the 1% that doesn't die is going to invent and do things the woman doesn't.
r0achtheunsavory, you have written an entire post about how you are the victim of feminism.
As a woman who has ticked off all the boxes on the road to achieving a full happy life (i.e. I am old and experienced in real life), I find it sad that you are a victim of feminism, that you have no control over your life, and that you are doomed to fail at every step.
I would like to know, why it is, that guys who buzzword bingo the language of 'newish' masculinity mope loudly over their divorce and trying to get out of child support when they have yet to find a girlfriend or have children.
As a powerful and experienced 'Fairy Godmother' I have done the most crazy projects (in a professional manner) with guys who, at a young age, had a vision for their life and themselves and could conceive of 'maximum effort' activities to educate themselves about the world and gain experience out in the wild. They were able to envision their best self and make a workback schedule of activities to get there. A lot of those activities will result in failure, and that brings with it much education. Never in those plans was there a 'RISK: feminists will eat my cake!' line item. And you know what, never in my life have feminists strolled into my life to eat my cake. Yet on a daily basis random men tell me on the internet that they will not read what I write because they think I am a feminist. So instead, they project all their fears of the world on me. It is tiresome for sure.
#NotAllMen waste their lives policing other men and women but #YesAllWomen are policed on a quasi daily basis.
If you think your manhood is the opposite of womanhood, you are just rendering your entire life force to something that you have no control over. Outside of the boogeyman of feminism, you are handing over your life to the people who have co-opted masculinity and femininity. Advertising, Movies and TV will make your life a living Hell with their ever moving consumeristic gender goal posts. You are being used by a system that thrives on conflict and hate for profit.
You obviously cannot read. My post discussed the misandrist behavior of feminists; the double standards and stereotyping they use while claiming to be against stereotyping. They're giant hypocrites. Your post had no coherent point and was not even related to my post at all.
Ah, so you have never known what feminism is to begin with. Good to know.
Do you think that if I wrote a book called "The Misandry of Feminism" that it would sell? It would mostly be about women hurting men's feelings but it seems like oppositional writing is doing really well these days, especially with very susceptible people.
You can find the entire history of feminism on Youtube. They all go like this: A crazed liberal arts lesbian walks up to a random man on the street that they don't even know and starts screaming made up words at them like "microaggression".
Everyone just stares at the screaming nutcase then ignores them. The feminist then becomes enraged, resorts to violence, and gets arrested and thrown into jail.