Simple life is good. I try to lead a simple life too. But sometimes, there is family obligations and .... its's complicated. lol... I admire that you are able to live as you do. It must be heavenly.

As for your step-mother, I know you are not complaining, but I guess you just have to bear with the situation and let her be. She is getting on, and I am sure you don't want to deprive her of her 'noise', or you will regret it when she is gone. :-)