The Only Questions That Truly Matter - How to Find Your True Love

Success is a complex concept that can best be described as an outcome that people seek when they work towards it by accomplishing certain goals or by working hard in a specific field. Success also involves the satisfaction of people's needs and the promotion of their welfare. In business, success means having high customer retention, low cost, profit, and customer loyalty. Achieving these are not as easy as they may sound. It takes much effort and it's not always easy.


But if you really want to become successful, you'll work hard and persevere just like anybody else. The only questions that truly matter are the ones you ask of yourself. The reason why people don't seem to enjoy life is because they don't ask themselves the right questions and they don't pursue their goals. I've said it a thousand times before and I'll say it again: Creating success in life is all about doing the right things with your life. But how do you do those things?

One way is to figure out what your goals are and focus on getting there. By asking yourself questions like, how will I be able to achieve my goal, what are the challenges, and how will I get to and from my goal, you get to answer your own question. And that makes it easier for you. Then by doing everything you can to get there, you get to know yourself even better and identify what kind of person you really are.

Another way to get to the bottom of your questions is to really hear them out. Imagine how your answer will sound like to somebody else. What would you say or do if you were answering the same question? That's how you start learning. You learn what is important and what is not important by hearing your own answers.

Sometimes, it's best to take a moment and stop and ask others what they think. If you aren't doing this, you're giving in to the voice in your head that says, "Do it your way!" In order to get real answers to the most pressing questions, you have to follow through on the answers. For instance, are you having problems finding people to talk to? If so, maybe you need to look deeper into networking.

Once you follow through on this, you can get back to your original question. If you're not meeting anyone, but still doing pretty well, maybe you need to check out the skills you have and the mindset you have that allows you to meet new and exciting people. Or maybe you need to work on your communication skills a little bit.

You see, there are really two different ways to answer questions in life. One is leading a single track in life that is completely open and yet connected to the rest of the world at the same time. You can have no expectations, have no goals, and basically just enjoy the ride. Or you can be a little bit more focused, have some expectations and goals, but also expect the unexpected and be able to deal with that as well.

Sometimes, the only questions that truly matter are the questions you don't ask. So be open to the questions in front of you. Ask questions. You'll figure out what's important and what's not.

The biggest problem is that we tend to focus too much on what we're not going to do or what we're going to say. I recently read an article by a guy who was dating this girl for several years. He was totally consumed with the question "Why me?" He told her he had no interest in her, that he wasn't going to initiate sex or try to talk her into something, and basically said this girl was not going to change his mind.

In his mind it made sense. Why would I want to spend my whole life with someone who didn't love me? But the truth is this is what men often think about when they're asking themselves the question "Why me?" and they've got a real opportunity to get a lot more answers by asking the right kind of question.


If you're asking yourself that question, I bet that you're worried about whether or not you have a great partner, or if you're stuck in a relationship where you're just unhappy. When you start to ask yourself these questions you have a chance to learn more about yourself. When you ask yourself questions like "What is this thing that makes me happy?" or "How does my partner make me feel?" you start to get a better understanding of what your life is like and how you fit in.