Polyamory, do you know him? Do you suffer?

In recent decades have been finding new ways to rediscover the warm water, with this although confusing treatment to take us to the point where they are re-discovering things about the human being that in the end, new are not even joke , among all these aspects I found an interesting topic a few years ago, and I follow one of the largest communities in Spain that play Polyamory in a more organized way, which is that, like many of the "minorities", they had to organize to defend their rights.

Now, like many articles that I write I will try to tropicalize everything, without the term being as in years old way of discrediting the point of view, but including as much as possible some some idiosyncrasies, or rather to avoid them since In our latitudes the predisposition to dismember any concept that is not within the reach of the most basic intellect is almost a norm.

The first thing to emphasize is the concept, the difference with other types of relationship, Polyamory as it has been known for a few years thanks to the writings of: Morning Glory, in his article «A bouquet of lovers» (1990 ), and one way to define it according to Wikipedia would be: "non-consensual, ethical and responsible monogamy". It is a concept of relationship that has no foundation stronger than love, and which has no estimated number or defined gender, now well, a core polyamorous can be 3 or more people who are in love with each other, (if it were 2 would be a couple) these Poli nuclei, should not (and is almost an offense) be confused with open relationships, which also come to be part of the diversity of this world but do not go hand in hand with the basic concepts of Polyamory.

When we note the Love as the fundamental axis of the relationship we note that if we remove our concept of traditional couple, this would be almost the same, but between more than 2 people, who are faithful to its core, sex, clarifying in the first place it is not the most important thing, although as in any type of romantic relationship it is a large part of what complements it. It can have several forms in a context that I will expose to be easier in a group of 3 individuals, and to skip a bit the machismo that harms the men themselves for the explanation will be a trieja where there are 2 boys and a girl.

DO NOT. Definitely not, maybe I say it because I happen to start knowing, but the first thing that I jump and jump into the imagination of several readers is a purely carnal act, a trio, a bed, the mirrors and the cameramen, this does not It is absolutely necessary, although if it is indeed so, my respect for enjoying what they feel, and that in this kind of relationships not necessarily all have sex with everyone, that is, there is the possibility that (in our example) the girl have sex with the boys separately, being all heterosexual or, if one of them is bisexual the heterosexual girl and the other homosexual boy, a boy would have only sex with the other and this alone with the girl.

I hope to explain a little what has many written pages and then expand if the receptivity of this article provides.

Leaving aside the amount of combinations that can be in a group of 3, 4 or even 5 members of a Polyamory relationship, I must talk about what is important, Polyamorous couples have the possibility of raising children with the same certainty that it will be a person with normal emotional growth, just like this recently proven to be the children of homosexual couples. Poli relationships are difficult to carry, but there are many cases in sight and millions behind curtains, which last a lifetime, "by the way, you've seen the film of the creator of the wonder woman" if you have not seen it I recommend it , it will seem interesting.

For now and to conclude the first part of this article I will say, that it takes double the understanding in a relationship of this type, and that they are relationships where communication is the cornerstone. If there is no communication they could not exist, everyone involved will always be aware of everything and will be like a larger team with typical complexities multiplied by 1.5 or 2 or 3. In the end, Love can do everything.