what we want is not always we get, because god gives what we need not what we want. What looks is not always the same as what it really is, what we hear is also not the same as the truth. and sometimes what looks beautiful is actually ruined, and what sounds good turns out to be bad. when a crying person is not necessarily sad, because there is a saying "happy tears" and when a laugh is not necessarily happy heart.
Thanks for your sharing friend @onequality, help