The term "Alpha Male" has been fashionable for some time and is currently also used to define women who are dominating in all possible areas. The term "Alpha" is used in the animal kingdom to describe those of the species that dominate and have preference within a herd, due to its characteristics.
Therefore, the "Alpha Woman" is one that differs over other women due to its characteristics. Currently, more and more women fit into this profile, because the image we have of ourselves has improved substantially.
How do I know if I am an Alpha Woman?
There are several characteristics that defines an Alpha Woman, i will share some of them with to see if you identify with them, it is important to emphasize that any woman can achieve these qualities through work, effort and discipline.
These are the main characteristics of an Alpha Woman:
She is very determined and does not give up until she reaches her goals.
A woman who does not trust herself will give up on the first attempt, this is definitely not the case of the Alpha Woman, who, above all, knows that failures are only learning and does everything in her power. achieve your goals, since you believe that you are capable of achieving everything that is proposed.
They are independent and have no fear of life (and when they have fears they face them).
They are women who do not depend on anything or anyone to be as they want to be and live as they want. A woman who is full of fears can hardly belong to this group, since the only way to make them disappear, is to face them and for that, the Alpha Woman is an expert.
Create your own reality.
She does not believe that destiny is 100% written, she knows that she owns her life and that she can choose and make decisions about almost everything when she wishes. She is more focused on being in control of her life than controlling the lives of others , since she knows that only causes frustration and anger.
She always takes the initiative in what matters to her
She does not wait for things to come to her or to appear in front of her door, she comes to life and creates opportunities.
She is appreciated and loved more than anyone in the world.
This does not refer to being self-centered and arrogant, but to a healthy self-esteem that allows you to love and accept yourself as you are, always improving the things that you can improve in any aspect of your life, since definitely an Alpha Woman is not a conformist .
She does not feel incomplete when she has no partner.
We already mentioned that she is independent, however, she is also independent when it comes to a relationship. When an Alpha Woman is single, she does not feel that the world is coming on her or that she will be left alone for the rest of her life, that is why she does not relate to anyone to fill a void, but chooses with genuine awareness and love to your life partner, free of fear or "urgency". This woman knows that in her life there are many reasons to be happy and she does not feel devastated when she has no partner, since she enjoys many more things.
She is a natural leader.
The Alpha Woman is not afraid to show her leadership in front of anyone, she likes to take the initiative and is excellent at directing and organizing. She does not feel intimidated by large groups or their male counterparts, as she is valued as a person and gender issues do not care.
Take care of your family without forgetting about yourself.
No doubt she is very responsible to give the best to his family, however, she does not forget her needs and desires and she satisfies them in the same way. she is able to give a lot but also to receive, this allows her to have a balance in the different areas of her life, she is firm and assertive.
They take care not only of their appearance, but also of their health.
They not only worry about staying young and thin, but their main motivation is to stay healthy, which gives them the above. For this reason, they take care of their diet, exercise regularly and take care of their emotional health, as this also affects physical health.
Women like Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton, Angela Merkel, Malala Yousafzai, Angelina Jolie, Salma Hayek, Shakira , among others, have shown that when there is really conviction and determination, no challenge is too small.
Do you identify with any of these characteristics?
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To be honest: Those are women I wouldn't even touch with gloves.
Hehe thats why they are classified as alpha women.
Michel Obama is a woman? No way man!
Great writeup, well written. @phunke
Waooo interesting post
It my first time reading about alpha women the it got my attention especially the penultimate paragraph
Thanks @dhavey
Thanks for this post @phunke
I never thought that Alpha women can be view in this dimension.
This proved to me that she is one of them
Don't ask me who am refering to o
Lol ok....i am not asking
Do you really believe healthy men find such a kind of monstrum attractive? Those kind of women are prone to be lonely and eventually unhappy. I do not believe that for most of the women such an idol you create is close to women's nature. There might be one in a thousand who has got that mind set. Sorry you have lost youself in a modern illusion. I would advise you to make contact to your feminine side - you are young and probably searching for your identity . you will find it inside your heart, not in your mind...
I like your article...nice...following @phunke