I WILL LOVE AGAIN

Aren't we all victims of life's circumstance for once?

I remember the story of a young friend, Sola, who has been jilted a number of times by guys.
Well, we assume that a woman's love is a form of her gullible nature manifesting itself

Maybe we are wrong sometimes as guys and we do not treat these ladies as much of a treasure that they are.

Her summary in story, is that she had had quite a number of relationships which all ended with her heart being shattered or broken and she doesn't even know where to start picking the pieces from

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Her last was a bombshell. She had given her car to the guy who barely earns a quarter of all that she earns at work. Unknowingly to her, that was a tool that the guy could use to perform some or all of his escapades. He was a good lover to many ladies and so it didn't matter if they were fair or dark, if you are game, he is gonna just give you that treat of your life on my friend's bill. That went on and they parted ways.

And there was this other young man she dated. Something happened.

On this fateful day, they had a dinner and my friend Sola also invited her friend Simi for the dinner in the house. A call came in and Sola needed to attend to the call leaving her boyfriend and her friend Simi in the kitchen to do the dinner preparations. About 5minutes later, contrary to what they thought, as her official calls usually take time, Sola arrived back at the kitchen and guess what?

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Her boyfriend and Simi were caught pants down and of course in that kind of atmosphere that you can already guess what it looks like. Sola shouted at the top of her voice and they caught the fire that she was back. They immediately pull it all together and even if Simi ran out of the house, Sola's boyfriend was just standing in the kitchen begging for her forgiveness and all. If not for anything, she wasn't happy that he ruined her dinner and of course she went to bed hungry.

Unstable in her emotional composition already, she woke up the next morning and decided to go to work as usual. She departed at 7:00am and unfortunately for her, the incident last night still had its toll on her, after few hours at work, at about 12:00pm she decided to retire from work to go back home. She got a cab and headed for the house since her car was given to her boyfriend who doesn't have a job yet and lives with her. Sola got home and walked straight to the bedroom. It happened again, the shock of her life was just staring at her that moment. Her boyfriend was having a good time with her maid in her bedroom. At the sight of this, she fainted. Thank God she is still alive and doing good again. She had lost so many things to her several relationships.

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Sola has been cheated, battered and hated for loving too much and giving too much. Well, I think she came out of all these a victor the day she looked at me and said she wants to love again. This time, Sola had met David who happens to be a bank manager and an entrepreneur per excellence and a good moralist who believes that doing good will also earn you good.

They got along so well simply because they both have similar experiences off life and it was more like a time to merge their experiences and forge ahead.

My advice to Sola was, "take it easy this time and don't sacrifice so much, so you don't feel cheated again". Her reply shocked me when she said, I'm loving again and will repeat the same mistake but with the right guy this time. She continued by saying her reasons to fall in love again:

• It looked like I gave too much in my last relationship, because it was to a wrong guy, but now I have the right man, I will give more.

Lesson: Anything looks like it's too much when it is given to a wrong person. Given to the right person, who handles it well feels like it's not enough.

• Love is still the best language ever spoken

Lesson: Anyone responds to love.

I just learnt too.

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