Is Your Comfort Zone Holding You Back From Living Destiny?

Do you think that circumstances interfere with living your life? You are not alone. We are so used to relying on autopilot that we don’t try to take over. How to get rid of victim syndrome? How to stop living a bleak life? Is it possible to make dreams come true? It's time to take the helm into your own hands. Then not circumstances, but you personally will begin to rule your destiny.

The master of life is one who is aware of his desires, goals, deep values ​​and lives in accordance with them. He knows that everything he has now is the result of his own choices and decisions, and not of external circumstances. The master of his destiny accepts responsibility for his life and realizes the consequences of his actions.

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Being in the comfort zone, we suffer, but gradually we adapt to unpleasant conditions. Over time, we adapt so much that we no longer want to leave our swamp. On this occasion I would like to say: "the devil is not so terrible as he is painted." The consequences of leaving the comfort zone are not so terrible as we wind ourselves up. Sometimes an act, thought out and weighed over the years, is done with a meager amount of effort. As a result, I am ashamed of myself.

Until you begin to control your life, others will control it. Yes, you may have to shrink, change to public transport, quarrel with someone, experience discomfort, feel misunderstanding or condemnation from others. But when you take the situation into your own hands, you will begin to understand well your own and someone else's life, get rid of stress or learn to cope with it. As a result, you will bring harmony to an ordered life.

There is another unpleasant but important side when leaving the zone. This is a constant work on yourself: setting goals , achieving, falling and disappointing. So, when you begin to act according to your own plan , you will immediately have to part with illusions about yourself, your beloved.

Resistance from family members is an essential part of your transformation. After all, before that, you were such a “convenient” child, parent, employee, spouse. And now you suddenly start to rebel. People around are unlikely to tolerate this. They will persuade, press, give advice, resent, insist, take with tears or illness (often fictional), threaten and do whatever they want to make you the same. Wait from the position of the victim - never build up power.

The rescue of drowning people is the work of the drowning people themselves. When we seek the approval of others, we fall into a psychological trap. It seems that we want to change, but we are waiting for permission from others. As a result, we do nothing, but again we find excuses. Without a clear awareness of one's own desires and goals, it is very difficult to resist such a massive attack, but it is real. Especially when you look at it as another test of strength.

Resistance from others is only half the battle. The role of the owner is capable of sobering up with a slap in the face and understanding that:

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To better understand how your inner changes will change your life, think about the device of the projector. You insert an indistinct picture in front of the light bulb, and on the wall you see a large full-fledged image. This will happen in your life as well - one inner change will make the picture of life colorful and convex, full of details that you did not even think about.

It is not so easy to feel like the master of life. For some it takes years, for others the process is faster. The main thing is your desire and determination to walk this path consciously and drop all doubts and fears. But on the other hand, an amazing feeling of delight awaits you when you take control and start just living your life.

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