Theres only one person you should compare yourself to!! Stay postive, work hard and you will succeed.

In the modern day world that we live in there appears to be more pressure than ever to succeed and do well. And granted success is a vital part of being happy but its also important to look at everything in a relative way. We seem to always only see the success storys flaunted on the internet whether it be with fitness, careers or lifestyle. Phsycologically it can make people feel disillusioned and disheartened with their own life when really they shouldn't. Everybody is fighting they're battles and at different times in our life we will be ready to push on fulfill our potentials. Keeping the positive attitude of course is crucial. Its easy be positive when life is going well while but when things are going against us or we suffer a few setbacks alot of people are inclined to steep into sell pity and accept that they're life is just not going to be how they want it. It saddens me to see how many people as young as in their early twentys seem to already have appeared to give up on reaching and hitting goals that once meant so much to them. They let themselves slip into comfort zones and cant see a way out of them . Let every loss be a lesson, it should be seen as one step closer to success. The mental attitude to be able to bounce back is often what differenciates successful people from those who arent. Never feel inferior to anybody else. We are all born equal and we all come in to the world the same way and go out the same way, its upto us what we do inbetween. Its easy make excuses sometimes when things are looking a little difficult, i often find myself doing it but in reality if you want to do something you can do it. There is always a way , it might not be easy , it might not be quick but there is a way. Comparing yourself to other people can be a major mistake people can make, looking at more successful piers and feeling a sense of inferiority. Remember that everybody has a different time span, one man may reach his goals and seems to have everything by 35 but only lives to 50 while another might not get to see his dreams reached till he is 50 but lives till 80. No two people are exactly the same ,we should never be conforming to do what appears to be the thing to do, be the person you want to be and strive to do the things that make you happy. When you get knocked down stand up stronger and look forward to pushing on . Let that be reflected in everything you do in life. I even thought with steemit after i spent an hour writing an article which i thought was pretty good and nobody had even seen it, what is the point, im never going to build a following of any significence and then i said well thats up to me , im on it a week now ive got the same opportunites as anybody else here , if i want to of course i can , any of us can. Whether is be sport, education of whatever career or business path your looking at ,put in the time , never give up, stay postive and work as hard as you can and realistically you cannot fail long term.
In the midst of this fast pace environment we're in its also important just to take a small bit of time each day to be greatful for what you do have, dont dwell on what you don't. Pick the positives, smile , take a deep breath and say that you. If you complain about work, say atleast you have a job and you can better your postion still. If you complain that you're legs are tired be grateful you can walk. If your feeling sorry for yourself getting out of bed in the morning, be grateful you had a bed to sleep in and a life to get up for. So anyway dont worry to much about the future that you cant cant enjoy the present. I hope we can all reach out and help each other be the best versions of ourselves, reach our potentials and dont let negativity drag you down and prevent you from being the person you would like to be.