Romantic rendezvous with my own husband! Fire requires wood :) 7 golden rules.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

I noticed that need to date alone with my husband at least once a week and I told him about it! In fact, we like to walk alone, but daily chores time-consuming and our relationship is not it! But we decided to fight for our romantic relationship! We decided "to throw wood on the fire"! We held hands and went for a walk around the city as the two lovers! And it works! 

Each of us has experience behind the failed first marriage! We lived with my husband for the second marriage for 14 years.I want to share with you my thoughts, which is important for us to maintain and improve our relationship! I describe this as seven golden rules that we try to adhere to:

1. Give the necessary attention to your partner! Select the time to listen him! It should feel like number one in your life!

2. Divide the household duties and try to talk about home affairs as little as possible! Better longer talk on other topics, as at the time when you met!

3. Agree on common minimum budget for your family and who will dispose of them! The rest of the private funds do not control each other! Let everyone spends their own money as he wants! So you can make each other surprises and gifts!

4. Select a common strategy in the parenting. People often quarrel lack of common views on parenting and money! Do not take decisions without consulting with husband. Discuss problems only together alone!

5. Do not rush to take offense! Ask a question. Talk to your partner about what you do not like! Perhaps he does not even know about it. Perceive your spouse as a friend who wishes you well!

6. Respect his individuality. He may not think like you! You are different and that's great. The truth is always in the middle!

7. Find common sources of pleasure. These may include: watching a movie, dancing, nature walks, photography, travel and others. The main thing is that you do it together and then shared their feelings! It's happiness!

 

These photos made our camera! We had fun as the kids! We wish you happiness and strong friendship!



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Great post and advice! It is so true what you wrote!

Thank you! Indeed, life - is a good teacher :)

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