Make your own choices

in #life6 years ago



Some people have submitted their will and entire life to friends, relatives or society and this has jeopardized their happiness in life. 

No one else knows you better than you know yourself, so stop giving other people the right to make choices for you. 

This does not mean you are not supposed to get counsel from other people. But you should be able to weigh their counsel against your own true desires. 

Most of our loved ones who try to make decisions for us, do so because they think that is what is best for us. However, the fact is, No one knows your deepest feelings and desires more than you do. So most times, they don't stand the chance of picking  the perfect choices for you. 

When taking advice from other people or going to them for counsels, don't accept everything immediately without dissecting it with your own innermost desires. 

Learn to know yourself because it will help you make better choices and stand by those choices irrespective of who is against it. 

Much love from me to y'all.

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True talk some people copy others lifestyle instead of believing in themselves

Humm
True, making the right decision by one self.
But we always see people option about us as best.

We are living in a society where choices and decision are hard to make because sometimes we listen to everybody, we end up not listening to ourselves.

True....
@ogoowinner, you broke my heart, so bad.
I featured you as my woman crush, you didn't even notice it.. https://steemit.com/esteem/@gloxypearl/fun-time-with-gee1-my-womancrushwednesday-2nd-episode-03c212243621...
Am still suffering the trauma...

We really need to believe in ourselves...

The best that we can ever be is to be ourselves and not someone else's lifestyle.

She just said the fact. There is no way you another person can make a right decision for you.
You will always end getting a bad end in that decision made

None Should chose or dictate my own life, I am the master and controller of my own life and none the deepest feeling of you besides oneself.....

Nice Motivational @ogoowinner

Re-steemed.

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