The Laws of Love

Many times we feel that an unloving act has been done to us.

• Sometimes we are right to feel sad about it because someone did a bad thing to us.
• Sometimes we are in error and we feel sad because we don't really understand the situation and we don't know how to avoid the pain and suffering.
  One frequent reaction in case of a dispute is: Would you like it if I did that to you?

Would you like it if someone did the same thing to you?

Sometimes this question determines the unloving person to see the situation from the point of view of the other person and to recognise his/her act was unloving.

Sometimes this question is useless because:

A. The unloving mind and soul are not able to see his/her act was unloving

This is caused by an accumulation of many sad feelings and errors in the soul and mind of a person. These feelings block the love feelings from others and can even make him/her deny the existence of love in this world. The sad feelings can be fear, pain, rejection, humiliation, embarrassment, misunderstanding, grief, envy etc..

• If there is a desire to change, to cure all these sad feelings, one has to first admit that these are influencing his/her actions in a bad way. Then there are ways to release those sad feelings without harming others.

• If there is no desire to change, the unloving person may have to face the encounter with some professional forces (army, police, lawyers, medics, psychiatrists etc.) that are usually a little more loving than he/she is. The unloving person could be imprisoned to give him/her time to see the situation from the point of view of the other person, to recognise his/her act was unloving, to cry out the sad feelings and to become more loving.

B. The unloving person sees his/her act was unloving but it is justified by something.

It is most common to justify one bad deed with another. This is how the old rule "An eye for an eye..." was made. This is a weak loving rule that is applied in extreme situations, for example someone who kills many people may be sentenced to death in some countries.

A loving person would never choose to harm another because that would be an unloving act, and which would stick to his/her mind and soul. A loving human would cry if a bad thing had been done. He/she would cry like a baby, for hours or until no more tears were left. Then, if still in this world, after the sad feeling is gone, the loving human would try to find a loving solution to the problem, by writing a good post on busy.org or on bsteem app :)

Peace!

Don't put the blame on God.

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