Title : BE WHAT YOU WANT

One of the most common questions on the lips of every single today is 'How do I find the right man or woman???

I have often read a lot of funny tips on this topic and I can really tell why the singles keep getting confused by the
day....
The first and most important step in finding the right person(man or woman) is being the
right person.. It is only natural that you will attract who and what you are. If perhaps, you want a patient woman, you as a man will have
to start practicing the act of being patient and vice versa..
Stop keeping a long list of the qualities of person you want when you don't possess a single quality of what you are hoping to find in the other person. Remember the law of Karma!
I have often heard people say, "This is me, anyone who wants me must accept me for who I am..."
My friend, who are you??? Who would want a person who breaks everything in the house in the heat of anger only to realize the damage he has done after a few minutes??
Who wants a woman who has all the brazilian wigs, designer bags, shoes perfumes and yet can't sleep peacefully in her house for the fear
of been harassed by the seller because she hasn't completed the payments in months???..

Who wants a woman who uses all her time in making up instead of attending to neccessary chores, oh, who wants a man who complains and shout at everyslight mistakes and says that is me, that is my habit?
You see???
No person in this world was born with a bad attitude. We all developed it at some point due to various reasons. Whether conciously or unconsciously hence we must not accept them as part of our lives.
We must be willing to change or adjust as the case may be...

Don't accept that you are hot tempered, and you can't control it, don't
tell me that having multiple partners runs in your lineage.
You can be a better person if only you will accept your wrongs and work on being a better person. For a moment, forget about what the other person has to offer, focus on being the right person, and you will just attract that special someone naturally.
Don't just look for a fine lady,focus on your own beauty of mind,then you will find a beautiful lady, the beauty I mean here is not only beauty of the face but beauty of the mind and soul,dont just look for a rich and handsome man,work hard too, and you will see how it has been easy for men to raise money.
You are dating a married man and you expect him to always make you happy right ? Work on yourself,only you can make you happy.
The working I am talking about will not just take a day, it's a gradual process, you have to keep doing it until you are good, if not perfect.
Let's do this so that we will not end up saying "ALL MEN/WOMEN ARE THE SAME"!
...... May God grant us all more wisdom....
Still @nifemi. I love you all
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