I dont impose to my daughter to be on top at school or, to belong to the honor roll or to emphasize competition in school.
I always inculcate in her to Always put her best foot forward in everything she does.after all, its not always and not only good grades can get you good job but its also GUTS and being perseverant in what you do that will put you to the pedestal...plus PRAYERS...
To succeed is to patiently wait God's best will for you