15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy

1. Give up your need for control:
   Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc.
   
   
   
   
2. Give up your need to always be right:
   There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships.
   
   
   
   
3. Give up on blame::
   Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have.
   
   
   
   
4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk:
   How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset.
   
   
   
   
5. Give up complaining:
   Give up your constant need to complain about those things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed.
   
   
   
   
6. Give up the luxury of criticism:
   Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you.
   
   
   
   
7. Give up labels:
   Stop labelling those things, people or events that you don’t understand.
   
   
   
   
8. Give up your limiting beliefs Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. “A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind”.
   
   
   
   
9. Give up the past:
   you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have.
   
   
   
   
10. Give up your excuses:
    Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. – excuses are 99.9% of the time are not even real.
    
    
    
    
11. Give up attachment:
    This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp. Love and attachment have nothing to do with one another, attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and selflessness.
    
    
    
    
12. Give up your need to impress others:
    Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. Be the real you.
    
    
    
    
13. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations:
    Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, what their friends, their enemies their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them.
    
    
    
    
14. Give up on your fears:
    Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place. “The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.”
    
    
    
    
15. Give up your resistance to change:
    Change is good. “Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls”.
    
    
    
    

Inspired by the great LUMINITA D.SAVIUC. credit is to her too.....