COPING With FEAR OF LOSING

The occurrence of "losing" is most likely the item that causes us the most stress. The horror that we experience when we consider the possibility of losing someone we care about is difficult to put into words...

It is not clear to me if this is the situation for all of us or whether I am the only one who feels this way, but one thing is certain: we are not conscious of the significance of...

It is especially true that we are not conscious of the significance of the people who are currently in our presence. We behave as if they are already together with us, as if they will continue to be a part of our lives for the rest of our lives.

The reality that they will eventually leave is something that we are completely oblivious to... On the other hand, the most important thing is that we always pinpoint the individual who is responsible for the crime. As a result of the fact that they have vanished...

It is also true that the individual who remains is blameless... Do you think it's possible that someone would leave for no apparent reason? At what point in time did someone leave without giving any obvious cause for their departure? As for me, I have not...

After that, you mention that they left, and that they were unsuccessful... To put it another way, you are the one who is the one who is the real loser! It is conceivable that you will not look for the person who has left in the beginning since there are individuals who are by your side who do not remember them. This is because there are people who are looking for them.

On the other hand, as time passes, you will discover that you are in a state of perplexity, as if you were a fish that was outside of its natural environment. When you get the opportunity of a lifetime, you will have the feeling that you have saved someone who is significant to you.

This will be the experience of a lifetime. You are under the impression that the one thing that you have lost is equivalent to the entire meaning of your existence, all the prosperity, joy, and hope that is associated with it.

Following that, the next things that come after that are pessimism, grumbling, and bashing up on individuals. The greatest source of happiness in life is the sense that we are loved, and it is this conviction that we possess.

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