More Capable of a Husband or Wife

in #life6 years ago


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Alhamdulillah
Greetings to all of us, May we always be protected by Allah SWT, who still gives us a healthy body and a healthy mind.

Do not forget the prayers and greetings, we always bestow upon the Prophet Muhammad, who has brought us from the realm of ignorance to nature which is full of knowledge.

Today I want to share stories with friends, Steemian, about one day with my children.

Test patience and emotion, so as not to cause high blood pressure, strokes and so on.
Being able to not a husband change the role of wife.

In a family of course there are heads of families, wives and children.
All have their respective responsibilities according to their position.

One day became a material for me:

  1. Happy not our wife at home
  2. Tired not he takes care of children
  3. There is no time for a wife to rest at home

Morning and Afternoon

Generally the head of the household leaves early in the morning and goes home in the afternoon to the house. If you have a permanent job the time and day remain the same, you will go home. With eight hours working time.
Differences with people who do not have a permanent job, will be uncertain when going home.

Thus, the children who take care of the child are fully played by the wife. Husband has no time to help his wife in taking care of the child.

Never complain

We often hear complaints that first came from my husband, I was very tired at work today. That's what his wife said when he returned home.

The wife has no time to complain, because the place to complain about the arrival is too late, the husband has prioritized it.
He works from morning until morning again.


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Conscious not husband to share time with wife

A holiday, the wife asks for a break and the husband wants a break too.
Who takes care of children?

What is the ability of a husband to take care of children or to look after him, like a wife does every day.
Many husbands are unable to look after their children, because their blood pressure will rise, will be angry, because their behavior is different.

I became confused, telling the story of a husband who was unable to change his wife's job for a day to take care of the children at home.

My story and the experience of friends who already have experience are also not capable.

Maybe there are also those who can and cannot meet.


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Alhamdulillah
Salam sejahtera untuk kita semua, Semoga kita selalu dalam lindungan Allah SWT, yang masih memberikan kita sehat badan dan sehat pikiran.

Tidak lupa selawat dan salam, selalu kita limpahkan kepada Nabi Muhammad SAW, yang telah membawa kita dari alam kebodohan ke alam yang penuh dengan ilmu pengetahuan.

Hari ini saya ingin berbagi cerita dengan teman Steemian semua, tentang satu hari bersama anak-anakku.

Menguji kesabaran dan emosi, agar tidak terjadi penyakit darah tinggi, stroke dan lain sebagainya.
Mampu tidak seorang suami mengganti peran istri.

Di dalam sebuah keluarga tentu ada kepala keluarga, istri dan anak.
Semua mempunyai tanggung jawab masing-masing sesuai dengan posisinya.

Pada suatu hari menjadi bahan pemikiran bagi saya :

  1. Senang tidak istri kita di rumah
  2. Capek tidak dia mengurus anak-anak
  3. Ada tidak waktu untuk seorang istri istirahat di rumah

Pagi dan Sore

Umumnya kepala rumah tangga berangkat pagi dan pulang pada sore hari ke rumah. Jika mempunyai pekerjaan yang tetap waktu dan harinya tetap sama akan pulang ke rumah. Dengan waktu bekerja delapan jam.
Beda dengan orang yang tidak mempunyai pekerjaan tetap, akan tidak menentu kapan akan pulang ke rumah.

Dengan demikian yang mengurus anak sepenuhnya diperankan oleh istri. Suami tidak ada waktu untuk membantu istri dalam mengurus anak.

Pernah tidak mengeluh

Sering kita dengar keluhan yang pertama sekali datang dari suami, pada hari ini saya capek sekali bekerja. Itu yang dikatakan kepada istrinya pada saat pulang ke rumah.

Istri tidak ada waktu mengeluh, dikarenakan tempat untuk mengadu datangnya terlambat, sudah didahulukan oleh suami.
Dia bekerja dari pagi sampai dengan pagi lagi.

Sadar tidak suami untuk berbagi waktu dengan Istri

Hari libur, istripun minta istirahat dan suami ingin istirahat juga.
Siapa yang mengurus anak-anak ?

Mampu apa tidak suami mengurus anak-anak atau menjaganya, seperti istri lakukan setiap hari.
Banyak suami yang tidak mampu menjaga anak, karena tekanan darahnya akan naik, akan marah-marah, dikarenakan anak tingkahlaku berbeda.

Saya jadi bingung, menceritakan kisah seorang suami yang tidak mampu mengganti pekerjaan istrinya untuk sehari saja menjaga anak-anak di rumah.

Cerita saya dan pengalaman teman yang sudah punya pengalaman juga tidak sanggup.

Mungkin juga ada yang sanggup dan belum dapat saya jumpai.

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