I am sorry if I upset you. It was not my intention. I did not say to ignore the negative but rather to not think in terms of positive and negative. These are conceptual states open to interpretation. When you say that you feed yourself a triple dose of positivity in a circumstance that would shift a person to a negative state it sounds like avoidance of that negative state. I was merely trying to point out that we can learn a great deal if we stay in a perceived negative state rather than trying to escape it. Be well.