DON'T JUDGE ME

You see sometimes they say don't judge me when giving them advise .

You say brother { you're not supposed to go to nightclub } , they say { stop judging me } .

What are you talking about ? We're just advising you so don't use the term " don't judge me " in order to run away from advice .

Sometimes it becomes difficult for the scholars or for those who want to advise others , to advice them . Sister you're supposed to be dressing in a proper way , my brother you're not supposed to be bouncing around on the street with your back side half showing , they say "stop judging me " but brother your back side is judging you . And this happens , and we get these answers on a daily basis .

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Well to be honest , nobody is judging but is does not mean that if a parson has uttered these type of words that their heart is dirty .

No brother and sister , they are advising you for your better .

I think that the real friends are those scholars who keep reminding me . What is my duty to allah . What is halal and haram , and the fact that I'm going to go into my grave with nobody . Those scholars who continue reminding me telling me that I'm a person whose going to go into my grave all alone . Those are my true friends .

What about us , what do we have , next to our names ? Do we hate the people who remind us ?

If that's the case , purification of the heart and soul is required , we ask allah to help us purify.

Do you know it is difficult age that we are moving in because people do not realize that when others are reminding you to purify your soul your heart . They are not judge you , they are helping you they are giving you a word of encouragement. Don't just give that answer , that is an answer .

We will not judge you , we love you my sister but we don't love your bad habit . we love you my brother , we don't love your bad habit